Memoirs of the New Wife

Update and Farewell

2011-11-13T22:54:00.001-05:00

One of my favorite scenes from The Sound of Music

Dearest Readers,

First, I would like to apologize for my absence. I have been busy taking care of priorities offline, as well as, contemplating and praying about the direction of this blog. With that said, this will be my last post for Memoirs of the New Wife. I sincerely enjoyed writing about my experiences as a new wife, but believe its time to close this chapter to embrace a new season in life.

Thank you so much for your support, encouraging comments, and for taking the time to subscribe. I truly appreciate you!

Memoirs of the New Wife will be available to read at your convenience.

God Bless You,
Nisha

PS: Please stay tuned for the next chapter...

2011-09-15T13:19:00.001-04:00

Saving Money on a Road Trip

Recently, we just took our annual trip to visit family in Michigan;we usually plan this trip ahead of time to save money, and to get the best outof our vacation. Here are the steps we take for an inexpensive, enjoyable road trip:

Reservations

Hotel Reservations: We book our hotel several weeks before traveling, and we use an online hotel booking service to get better rates and rewards. We use hotels.com, this website allows you to earn credits with each reservation, 10 credits gets you a free room. This service provides a significant discount on rooms.
Find hotels that offer free breakfast: This provides you with the convenience of not leaving your hotel in morning and saves you money on food, especially with a growing family.
Reserve a hotel with a kitchenette and/or microwave and mini-fridge:- Having these items can come in handy, especially when the hotel offers free breakfast, you have the option of grabbing extra items for snacks later. Also, you can grocery shop for food items to prepare in your room instead of eating out every night.

Food Preparation Before Trip

Buy snacks for the road: Bring individual apple sauces, fruit, crackers, trailmix and granola bars. These foods are convenient while driving and easy to clean up .
Buy your own water or drinks: Bring a cooler and stock up on bottled water and/or juice boxes. Beverages can be very inexpensive at gas station convenience stores and service plaza
For Babies: Buying prepackaged baby food and snacks prior to the trip can be very helpful, especially if you usually make your on food at home.

Pre-planning can save you time, money and stress,making your family road trip more pleasant and relaxing everyone!

Happy Traveling!

Simple Coupon Tips for Beginners

2011-09-13T09:51:00.000-04:00

I am not an extreme coupon-er. Although I admire them, I amstill a rookie that operates on a more modest scale. However, I am excited toshare that I am getting better with each shopping trip. As I continue to learn, I wanted to share afew simple tips that have helped me save money along the way:

Preparation: Its true, "if you fail to plan, you plan to fail." Meal plan, plan your shopping trips and plan your coupon scenarios. Planning saves you time, money and unnecessary stress and frustration.
Subscribe to your local newspaper: How else will you get those coupons?
Install a printable coupon program on your computer: The more coupons you have the more savings! You can download the coupon installer at Coupons.com.
Combine coupons with sale items-This doubles your savings!

What I learned about coupons from Aunt Sally in 20 minutes that saved me$70!

While on vacation, I found out that my Aunt Sally was anextreme coupon-er. You know, the ones that can get several items for free and know howto work a deal with a coupon, yeah she's one of them! Well, I sat at her feet and got some wisdom,it was a Titus 2 moment, I loved it! Here is what she shared with me:

Use printable coupons- You are allowed to print out 2 coupons, hit the back space button to print out the second coupon.
Join a mailing list: Sign-up for your favorite brands' newsletters and/or insider clubs: Companies send out additional coupons and offers when you become apart of their mailing list.
Visit popular coupon sites such as Hip2Save, KrazyKouponLady, Coupon Mom, Freebies4Moms for tips, coupon scenarios/match ups, giveaways, samples and freebies!

One last thing, when signing up for newsletters and insiderclubs, I suggest creating a secondary e-mail just for coupon savings andrelated information.

What are some of your Grocery Saving Tips? Please Share.

Happy Savings!

20 End of the Summer Activities for Toddlers

2011-08-14T19:17:00.009-04:00

As a Mom of a 2 1/2 year and 8 month old, I am constantly looking for things to do with my little ones, especially my 2 year old. Here are 25 activities that I found to keep those little ones active and entertained!:

1. Visit various playgrounds in your community

2. Swimming or water play at your local neighborhood pool-I have yet to do this one, we have chosen to wait until we get swim lessons to teach our little ones how to swim.

3. Get wet in your own yard with the water hose or sprinkler- On our way to the playground, I accidentally locked the children and I out the house on one of the hotter days of the summer (Thank God, they had hats and sunglasses on!), we played with the water hose to stay cool until my Sister-in-law arrived! It was one the the funnest days we've had this summer!

4. Blow Bubbles-This is a fun activity when I don't really feel like going outside, Sweet Pea chases the bubbles while in the front yard.

5. Go to the Library- Pick up books or participate in one of the scheduled story time activities

6. Go to the Beach-Let them play in the sand and pick up sea shells!

7. Color

8. Draw

9. Paint

10. Make homemade play dough- Here's a good recipe.

11. Bake together- I allow Sweet to add the 'Key Ingredients,' which are all the dry ingredients.

12. Dance-Put on some music and get moving!

13. Scavenger Hunt inside or outside

14. Visit friends with children around the same age

15. Visit your local Zoo

16. Watch a movie together-Recently,we watched Beauty and the Beast, even today, this movie is still a good one to watch!

17. Craft activity

18. Play with their toys together-The toys seem more exciting when we get down on the floor and play with them.

19. Let them be your helper-Give them a task, such as putting the clothes in the dryer, or emptying or filling the dishwasher.

20. Kick Ball- Find a open field and let them have at it!

What activities do like to do with your Toddler?

Healthy Kitchen: Homemade Almond Milk

2011-07-07T16:16:00.028-04:00

Almond milk is healthy and delicious alternative, and inexpensive to make. I prefer to make almond milk when I run out of creamed-topped whole milk.

I found a couple of good recipes I liked and used them as a guide. Here is the recipe:

Homemade Almond Milk

1 1/2 cups of almonds (I bought roasted almonds in bulk at Costco)
4 cups of water
1 1/2 tbsp of maple syrup or honey (or preferred sweetner)
1/8 tsp of cinnamon (optional)
1/8 tsp of of pure vanilla extract or vanilla bean (optional)
Cheese cloth or nut bag (if using cheese cloth you will need a large strainer)
Blender
Large bowl to strain milk

This recipe makes about 2.5-3 cups.

1. Blanch almonds. How to blanch almonds.

2. Place almonds in blender with 1.5 cups of water.

3. Blend almonds to a smooth consistency. Then, add maple syrup or honey, vanilla, cinnamon and remaining water (2.5 cups). Blend for 2-3 minutes.

4. Place 3-4 layers of cheesecloth on top of the strainer, and pour almond milk through the strainer over bowl.

5. Remove cheese cloth. squeeze the remaining milk from the almonds. Viola, you are finished! You now have fresh almond milk!

6. Sweet Pea Approved!

Additional Info:

Almond milk is delicious and creamy, but not as sweet as the store bought almond milk. Personally I like the taste, and you have the option of making it as sweet as you like.

Its important that you strain the milk or you will end up with a strong chalky taste.

Next time I will invest in a Nut Milk Bag, I used up all of my cheesecloth. I believe I used more cheesecloth because I only had a small strainer, which made it moredifficultto strain the milk.

I soaked my almonds overnight before blending, as I do not have a super blender like Vita-Mix (its on my wish list!).

Enjoy!

* Please excuse the asthetics (spacing, etc). I am having technical issues with my blog format, hopefully Blogger will fix it soon :)

Healthy Kitchen: Homemade Granola

2011-06-29T16:01:00.001-04:00

As I have mentioned in previous posts, I have a great desire to feed myself and my family nourishing, healthy foods. Personally, this means foods that have less processed ingredients as possible (my goal is to have a completely real food kitchen). I wanted to share with you some of the recipes I have made for my family.

One of the recipes was delicious homemade granola from Homestead Revival. I had been searching for a simple, healthy recipe for a couple weeks now. I have made granola bars in the past, but this was my first time making actual granola and I was very pleased with the results!:

Granola right out of the oven

Plain Greek Yogurt with honey, homemade granola and fresh strawberries for breakfast, yummy!

My reasons for wanting to make homemade granola and granola bars is because of the suspect ingredients included in these items sold in the stores. Sadly, I currently have a box of 48 granola bars (for my Hubby's lunch) that are advertised as being 100% natural. However along side the natural ingredients, these bars contain the following ingredients....

Maltodextrin, High Maltose Corn Syrup...hmmm, Houston, we have a problem. These ingredients are far from natural, and also have harmful side effects.

Choosing to make them at home only takes a few ingredients, compared to the nineteen (yes, I counted them) ingredients listed in my store brought version, and most of the ingredients are already in our kitchens.

So what am I going to do about the 48 bars? Well, I am going to rejoice when they are gone, and next time be ahead of the game by opting for the homemade granola bars for Hubby.

I almost forgot to mention that it costs me less than $2 to make my own granola! The cost alone is a great motivator (smile).

Happy Healthy Eating!

The Truth About Birth Control

2011-05-26T23:00:00.002-04:00

The other day I was watching a popular talk show and the title was Surviving at Any Age. The first topic was about birth control, during this discussion a health care expert explained the benefits of birth control, the three methods to use and how these procedures can help with the prevention of cancer as well as lighten or dismiss our monthly menstrual period. Well, I was all ears, because I no longer believe in taking any birth control or contraceptive. I say no longer, because there was a time in my life in which I was having pre-marital sex. The truth is if I had not been having sex before marriage, I would not have needed birth control. Scriptures clearly says, Honor marriage, and guard the sacredness of sexual intimacy between wife and husband. God draws a firm line against casual and illicit sex (Hebrews 13:4)

Our problem is selfishness, we think that we are in control of when we should have children and how many, when truthfully it's not up to us, it is up to God. Genesis 1:28 says, Then God blessed them, and God said to them, “Be fruitful and multiply...

As Christians we have a responsibility to know and understand the areas in which we need not participate in, hence, birth control. Roman 12: 2 says, And do not be conformed to this world, but be transformed by the renewing of your mind, that you may prove what is that good and acceptable and perfect will of God. (Romans 12:2, New King James Version)

Why not, birth control you ask? First, let's talk about the history behind the pill. Birth control was invented by a woman named Margaret Sanger the founder of Planned Parenthood (one of the largest providers of abortions in America). She believed in the sterilization of ethnic races and prevention of large families.

Words from Margaret Sanger:

"We do not want word to go out that we want to exterminate the Negro population," she said, "if it ever occurs to any of their more rebellious members." (Woman's Body, Woman's Right: A Social History of Birth Control in America, by Linda Gordon)

"The most merciful thing that a large family does to one of its infant members is to kill it." Margaret Sanger, Women and the New Race (Eugenics Publ. Co., 1920, 1923)

Secondly, birth control is an abortifacient; a drug or device used to cause abortion. Birth control prevents you from having children, therefore eliminating [interfering with] the processes God put in place to conceive a child.

Thirdly, birth control has adverse health affects on the body. Some of the effects are migraines, bloating, cancer, heart disease, blood clots and obesity.

On the contrary the Bible states in 1 Timothy 2:15, Nevertheless she will be saved in childbearing if they continue in faith, love, and holiness, with self-control. God will bless us in our roles as mothers.

So before popping that next pill, think about it. I urge you today, to get rid of your choice of birth control. FYI, birth control also includes tubal ligation and vasectomies, the highlighted links will direct you to the testimonies of those who have reversed these procedures.

I know this is a tough subject, but I pray that your heart is opened and receptive and that you will allow God to guide you.

2011-05-16T13:21:00.001-04:00

Hello and Welcome to Memoirs of the New Wife,

My name is Nisha. I am a 31 year old follower of Jesus. I am a Wife to a wonderful husband, Mommy of two beautiful children and full-time Homemaker. When I was married to my husband 4 years ago, we agreed that it was God's will for me to be at home full-time. Although being a homemaker was in my heart, I never considered when and how it would happen.

That day marked a major event in my walk with God, so major, I was prepared to call off our wedding, I thought that all of my dreams and freedom were coming to an end and I was not ready to give them up. However, I did not call off the wedding, intsead, I trusted God with the new direction of my life.

Fast forward 4 years, I am glad I was obedient to God, this was one of the best decisions made in my life! What I come to realize about that day is God answered a prayer based on the desire of my heart. Even though I was chasing the world's ideal of success, deep down, I truly wanted to be a wife, at home caring for my husband and our future family.

I enjoy being a wife and mother who has the privilege of being home to provide comfort, peace and love to my family on a full-time basis. Is it an easy job? No. Was I taught this in college? Absolutely, not! With the latter said, this is a place where I share my experiences as a fairly new wife, mother and homemaker while encouraging other newbies with information I have gained through the years from trial and error, prayer and older, wiser women.

I also enjoy cooking wholesome foods, crafting, reading, earning income from home and more.

The scripture that encourages me to the best homemaker I can be is Titus 2:3-5:

the older women likewise, that they be reverent in behavior, not slanderers, not given to much wine, teachers of good things— that they admonish the young women to love their husbands, to love their children, to be discreet, chaste, homemakers, good, obedient to their own husbands, that the word of God may not be blasphemed. (Titus 2:3-5, New King James Version).

God has called us to love our husbands, children and to be homemakers. Many of us were taught to be our own woman, go to school , get the degrees and good jobs, but not how to take care of our familes and homes.

My prayer is that this blog will provide the fundementals to help you build a strong foundation as a homemaker that will positively effect generations to come!

Please feel free to e-mail me: a dot muschette at gmail dot com

Be Encouraged,
Nisha

Happy Mother's Day!

2011-05-08T14:30:00.002-04:00

Happy Easter!

2011-04-23T11:05:00.002-04:00

Welcome DDS Sisters!

2011-04-16T18:07:00.006-04:00

Hello Ladies, Thank you for taking the time to visit the blog. I hope you are encourage and inspired! Please use the topic cloud on the right side bar to navigate your way around.

Today I was able to complete my last assessment for my discipleship program, Divine Discipleship for Sisters (DDS), this was a 9-month program in which we studied through the MasterLife worbook series and had an assessment every 6-weeks on what we learned. It took me a little longer because I gave birth to KJ in the middle of my program. But God is so good, I am so grateful to Him for allowing me to complete this task!

My last assessment was on Spiritual Gifts, and how am using my gifts to minister, well, I was able to talk about the blessing of this blog and how it has been encouraging to others. Needless to say, I am no longer on hiatus...I will be back with new articles soon. Presenting about how encouraging this blog, encouraged me to get back to sharing and writing. Thank again for taking the time to read!

Savvy Mama Fridays: Post- Pregnancy Fashion

2011-01-28T06:55:00.007-05:00

Post- Pregnancy Fashion by amuschette featuring plaid tops

After having those precious babies, we go through many changes, and one of those changes is our bodies. We are not the same size we were before having our babies, we have a new pouch and can't fit a thing in our closets! Yes, of course, we have the goal to get back into those size ?jeans...but, in the meantime what to do?

I am glad you asked! I too am in the same boat! So, I have decided to start this series to help me and you look good and feel good while in our post pregnancy bodies.

Above are three sets of stylish top ideas to get you started:

1. Printed Tops are a great choice when trying to camouflage unflattering areas on the body, i.e. the Kangaroo pouch. However, be careful when selecting stripe looks, pay close attention to the width of the stripes and the neckline, these two elements can be either helpful or harmful to your body type (smile).

2. Georgette and Empire Blouses are stylish, graceful and flattering to the waist. The fabric and design of these tops create a beautiful feminine look that could be paired with slacks, leggings and/or jeans.

3. Tiered, Gathered, or Empire Tanks are a nice addition to your transitional wardrobe. These tanks can be worn during any season. For the cooler months, pair it with a trendy open cardigan.

Have a great weekend!

Do You Know What's in Your Produce?

2011-01-24T00:00:00.004-05:00

Happy Monday,

Here are a list of foods you may want to pay close attention to on your next shopping trip.

The Dirty Dozen: These foods contain the highest levels of pesticides.

1.Peaches (worst)
2.Strawberries
3.Apples
4.Domestic blueberries
5.Nectarines
6.Cherries
7.Celery (worst)
8.Potatoes
9.Sweet Bell Peppers
10.Spinach
11.Kale/ Collard greens
12 Imported Grapes

The Cleanest Foods: Less likely to be contaminated.

1. Onions,
2. Sweet corn
3. Sweet peas
4. Asparagus
4. Cabbage
5. Eggplant
6. Sweet potatoes.
7. Avocados
8. Pineapples
9. Mangoes
10.Kiwi
11.Domestic cantaloupe
12. Watermelon
13. Grapefruit
14. Honeydew

Click here to view the full list.

The best way to obtain our produce is to grow it or buy organic!

For more information, please visit the Environment Working Group

Hospitality

2011-01-10T13:27:00.006-05:00

Happy Monday,

One of things I prayed for this New Year was having a hospitable spirit. I enjoy having company over, but I have my hang ups. My house has to meet a certain standard, and since we just moved into our new home less than a year ago...we are still working towards furnishing areas like the living room. In my mind this means not having people over for more than 2-5 years or until the house is 'perfect.' I know this sounds ridiculous, but I can be transparent with you all, right?

You will be happy to know that as of last week, I have had people over twice in one week. When you pray for something, you can guarantee that God will make the opportunity available, but what will you do with it? Me, I put on the spirit of hospitality, even if my home was not picturesque:

I am so glad I did, it was a blessing to have friends over! I even prepared a delicious lunch for my guests!

Most importantly, the word of God encourages us to be hospitable to others, no matter what our homes look like. Honestly, most people could care less. Personally, I do not want to miss out on a ministry opportunity because of superficial reasons like my home decor.

Scripture Says:

Show hospitality to one another without grumbling. 1Peter 4:9

Do not neglect to show hospitality to strangers, for thereby some have entertained angels unawares. Hebrews 13:2

Are you hospitable? How has inviting others in your home blessed you?

Thanks for reading...

Perculiar Life Series Pt. 3: Birth Story 2010

2010-12-15T16:09:00.011-05:00

I cannot begin this story without mentioning my first experience with childbirth. My husband and I carefully thought out how we wanted the birth of our first child, Sweet Pea, to take place. We took natural birth classes and researched midwives and birthing centers. Being first-time parents, we were not quite ready for a home birth (so we thought), and we were on a long waiting list at a birthing center. Thus, we decided to deliver at a local hospital that had a birthing center just 2 years old within the unit. Unfortunately, that experience did not go as we had planned, but don’t you know that God works all things together for good to those that love Him and are the called according to His purpose (Romans 8:28)? You can read more about that birth story here. In discussing the experience with my husband, I shared my desire for a home birth. So began my prayer and petition to the Lord.

Fast Forward to February 2010...

Thank you Lord for the gift of children as we found out we were expecting baby number two. I immediately began looking for birthing centers and/or midwives that would accommodate us. As mentioned in my first childbirth experience, I had an emergency C-section, which I accepted as God’s will for my life. As the Word says, His ways and thoughts differ from ours (Isaiah 55:8). However, I did not believe that I was supposed to continue having C-sections. Most birthing centers will not accept clients who have not already had a successful VBAC (Vaginal Birth After Cesarean), so that choice was not an option. But look at God! I found a midwife less than 30 minutes away who has a successful record in performing VBAC’s. So begins our home birth journey.

Before going any further, I have to mention that deciding to have a VBAC was not generally well received. Some thought I was going a bit too far with deciding to have a home birth. In my culture, it is considered “unusual” giving birth naturally, not to mention at home. And did I say with no medication? WHAT!? Are you crazy? Additionally, the women in my family were very concerned. I assured them that home births are legal, safe, and have been regularly practiced in the US for decades. Truthfully, I am not crazy. I am exactly what the Word of the Lord describes. I am a peculiar person (1 Peter 2:9). I am an African-American woman who advocates home birthing, breastfeeding, home schooling, etc…and just for the record, there are many more like me who prefer alternative methods of health and wellness. But more on that later…

Now onto baby KJ...

With the November 30th due date imminent, I started laboring Friday, November 27, 2010. My labor progressed over a four day period, with no breaks. This made me appreciate more the freedom to labor in the comfort of my home. If I would have been at a hospital, most likely they would have induced my labor, administered Pitocin, given me an Epidural, and if I would not have made “progress” after 24 hours, I would have been pressured to have an c-section. Laboring at home was indeed no cake walk; my body went through many changes over the course of four days. I could not hold down any food or liquids, I barely got any sleep. The only sleep I received was between each contraction, while I watched everyone else sleep. During the active contractions (the contractions that were strongest just before the baby came), I was in the worst pain I had ever experienced in life. I could not stay in one position for a long period of time because the pain was so overwhelming. I went from bed, to birthing ball, to the floor on all fours, to the tub, to sitting on the toilet, to sitting in a chair. I performed this routine several times before delivering my baby. To soothe myself during these intense contractions, I listened to praise and worship music, and repeatedly said to myself. “I can do all things through Christ who strengthens me. (Philippians 4:13)” Also my husband‘s continuous, positive reinforcement, and the sincere emotional support from my birth assistant, was very helpful.

Finally, on Tuesday, November 30th at 4:42am, after 93 hours of labor, I gave birth to a beautiful, healthy 9lb 1 oz baby boy in my bathtub. After experiencing such an organic, hands-on birth, the prior events were well worth it! The events that took place were a reminder of how awesome God is, how He hears our prayers (Psalm 34:17) and that He truly does exceedingly above all that we could ask or think (Ephesians 3:20). As I reflect on the entire experience, here are some of the blessings for which I am grateful:

• God answered our prayers about having a home birth
• God allowed us to have a successful home birth
• Through the process I have learned I can do all things through Christ who strengthens me (Philippians 4:13)
• At moments when I thought this birth was impossible, God showed me that all things are possible with Him (Matthew 19:26)
• I was able to give birth vaginally to a 9lb baby without receiving stitches
• Love from a supportive and patient husband
• God provided a patient and experienced Midwife
• Attentive, personalized care from my Birth Assistant

Lastly, having a VBAC showed me another level of surrender to God as well as the tremendous strength that He provides in our weakness (2 Corinthians 12:9)!

I hope you were encouraged to know that you have options when it comes to your birthing experience; the hospital is not your only choice.

Resources:

Ina May Gaskin- Home Birth-Why Its Necessary

Thanks for reading. Please feel free to ask any questions you my have!

Happy Monday and Fage Yogurt

2010-12-13T11:25:00.007-05:00

I am a big fan of Greek food (its in my top 5 foods I love to eat), I love the Mediterranean diet which consist of rich yogurts, meats, seafood and vegetables. Gyros with tzatziki yogurt sauce is one of my favorites.

When Hubby went to the store last week, I decided to make a change to Greek yogurt as I have been reading the positive reviews about Fage (Fa-yeh). He came home with a large container of the 0% fat, Fage. The next morning I made my staple breakfast, yogurt and granola. Whoa! was my first reaction, this yogurt was indeed dense and had a strong sour taste to it like sour cream.

Honestly, it was a bit too much for me. I expected a rich and somewhat sweet taste. Surprisingly, Sweet Pea enjoys it! I decided to add some honey which did the trick. I am able to eat and enjoy it now. Also, I did some research and found that there are different types of Fage yogurt, 0%, 2%, and Total Classic and they are color coded for our convenience, this makes all the difference in how you choose to consume this product. I learned that 0% is used for dips and maybe to replace sour cream. Next time, I will buy the Total Classic which seems to be what I am looking for, yep, give me the fat!

Thanks for reading!

Savvy Mama Fridays: Homemade Skin Moisturizer and Diaper Cream for Baby

2010-12-10T09:29:00.008-05:00

Honestly, I am not a fan of the pasty white stuff that is recommended for our baby's bottom, but my husband is! However, last night I convinced him to start using my homemade concoction, yay me! Using what I already have at home, here is the recipe I created for our precious little one:

Skin and Diaper Cream for Baby

1 Part Shea Butter

1 Part Coconut Oil

Mix ingredients together until it forms a smooth creamy texture.

That's it, you're done...simple, right?

The Shea Butter acts as a skin moisturizer, promoting cell renewal , elasticity and increasing circulation.

The Coconut Oil has anti-fungal properties that protects the skin from and during a diaper rash.

Enjoy! What homemade recipes have you created that have been beneficial to your family?

PS: Please feel free to browse my new Amazon.com Store!

Introducing....

2010-12-09T11:17:00.002-05:00

Birth story to follow...

Happy Thanksgiving!

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Be cheerful no matter what; pray all the time; thank God no matter what happens. This is the way God wants you who belong to Christ Jesus to live. (1 Thessalonians 5:18, The Message)

Savvy Mama Fridays: DIY Nursing Covers

2010-11-19T09:49:00.010-05:00

The one project I desired to complete before baby's arrival was a nursing cover. While nursing Sweet Pea, I used what I had available to cover up in public i.e. blanket, coat, sarong, etc., so I was determined to have one of those cute covers.

Being frugal and a DIY girl at heart, I decided to make it myself. I am somewhat of a beginner sewer borderline intermediate...with that said, I am excited to share with you my completed project! I had to sew this under pressure, meaning Hubby and Sweet Pea were extremely curious and around me most of time. Sweet Pea especially wanted to explore the sewing machine all by herself. Nonetheless, I am pleased to report that I accomplished this project in one siting, I think it took a little less than 2 hours. I used this tutorial as a guide.

Oh yea, the materials were less than $5, I had a coupon and bought the items during the Veteran's Day Sale at Joann's Fabric, what a deal compared to paying $25-$35 for a store bought nursing cover!

I hope this inspires you to take on your own DIY projects.

Have a great weekend!

American Diabetes Month

2010-11-15T13:18:00.006-05:00

Happy Monday!

November is American Diabetes Month, I decided to recognize this disease, because as an African American this disease runs rapid in my family and culture. African Americans have the highest rate in Diabetes, High Blood Pressure and Heart Disease. Unfortunately, these are known as the triple threats that hinder our community. Fortunately, these diseases are curable by changing the way we eat and how we take care of bodies.

If you have loved ones like I do that may be battling with this preventable disease, here are tips that we can share to help them defeat this problem before it defeats them:

Eating vegetarian 1-2 times a week can change your health status dramatically. Try participating in the Meatless Monday campaign.

Studies show that going vegan (no animal by products) can reverse diabetes. I personally asked a doctor about this and they confirmed this is true.

Exercising a minimum of 3 times a week. Something as simple as taking a 30 minute walk can change your health significantly.

Eliminate refined sugars and processed foods, instead use natural sweeteners like honey, agave nectar, maple syrup, etc. and eat whole foods like grass-fed meats, pastured eggs, organic fruits and vegetables. For real food choices in your area, check out the following websites: http://www.eatwild.com/, http://www.foodroutes.org/, http://www.localharvest.org/ and CSA.

Decide to take control of your health and CONQUER this disease!

Unfortunately, I have noticed that there are more Dialysis Centers popping up in predominately black neighborhoods than in any other neighborhood, does this seem strange to you or do we need to get a grip on our health and well-being?

Other Resources:

American Diabetes Association

F.A.C.E.-Diabetes

My people are destroyed for lack of knowledge.
(Hosea 4:6, New King James Version)

If any of you is deficient in wisdom, let him ask of [a]the giving God [Who gives] to everyone liberally and ungrudgingly, without reproaching or faultfinding, and it will be given him.
(James 1:5, Amplified Version)

Perculiar Life Part 2: Eating Habits: A Follow-up

2010-11-09T11:25:00.016-05:00

For the last 7 months, I have had a different eating regime you can read about it here. My eating habits consisted of no dairy and no meat. This change was difficult on some days and victorious on others. I also believe, being pregnant and making this change, made it even more challenging, but I did it and it was worth it. I believe some of the benefits during this change were, my weight and health was maintained through out my pregnancy, I did not deal with sinus problems this summer and I was able to maintain my health in other areas, which I plan to discuss in a separate post.

After much prayer about if this diet was temporary or permanent, I have concluded that after the birth of our baby, I will complete this eating lifestyle and transition into real food eating. What is real food? Sustainably grown, organic and local foods. I will make a concerted effort to feed my family meats, dairy and produce that are properly grown without any additives, hormones, pesticides, etc. How am I going to accomplish this? Initially, I will start by purchasing our meats and dairy from our local farmers market that is run by Amish farmers.

What other areas am I incorporating?

-We will eat vegetarian/vegan meals twice a week, at a minimum.
-I will only by meats that are from grass fed animals.
-I will limit my dairy intake to 1-2 times a week.
-I will cook more items from scratch.

Other benefits I am most excited about:

I can eat with my family again. Unfortunately, my lifestyle change was not for everybody, just me. On some days my husband and I did not see eye to eye on meals or meal planning. Also, I feel like I was neglecting my husband, I would put more thought and effort in my cooking and preparation than I did in his meals. This also included buying more convenient not-so-nutritional items that he sometimes rather enjoyed. However, as the primary nourisher in my home, I believe I am responsible for the nutritional choices of the entire family. Furthermore, one thing I enjoy most is spending time with my family and providing healthy, delicious meals and eating them together.

Also, one of my husband and I favorite past times was eating good food together when we have the opportunity to eat dinner out. With my diet change, we had very limited choices or I had to eat at a different place all together, this cause frustration and separation at times. I have to say I am most happy about joining my family again with meals

I am confident and excited about this transition and am appreciateive of what I have learned in the last seven months. I have learned how to cook differently, to use a variety of ingredients and foods, and I am more open to trying new foods and including them in our diet. Lastly, I can appreciate foods even more and am not afraid to live without or limit certain foods.

In conclusion, I learned that every diet has its pros and cons and you have to find what works for you. I truly believe that eating real foods genuinely works for me and I am thankful to God for releasing me to do this and moving me to this new area. I also, realized that I am not comfortable with faux meats and cheeses, although I experimented with them and some were actually good, I would rather have the real thing.

I am making a commitment to study, learn and apply my new eating habits so that I can provide the very best for me and my family. Yesterday, I checked out the the book Real Food by Nina Planck, I am already engaged in this book and look forward to sharing with you my review.

Thanks for reading...

Beloved, I pray that you may prosper in all things and be in health, just as your soul prospers. . (3 John 1, New King James Version)

Savvy Mama Fridays: How to Find Stylish Maternity Clothing on a Budget

2010-11-05T06:00:00.007-04:00

During the months of pregnancy our bodies go through a transition, and we have to adjust to our new body image. Although, this may be challenging and emotional at the same time, we can make light of the situation by embracing our our new hips, waist size and baby bump.

Here are several ways to save, shop and look stylish while carrying baby:

Check out your local thrift store: Most thrift stores have a good variety of maternity clothes, because this is usually a temporary transition, moms chose to give their items to the local second hand store. You can find brands like Meme Maternity, Pea in a Pod, Motherhood, Old Navy, and Gap at a fraction of the price. Be sure to inquire about the 50% off days, its so worth it, items are usually marked down as low as 50 cents!

Clearance areas: Target has a great clearance section, especially on maternity items, so before you hit the full price racks, check out the clearance racks.

Discounted Stores: Stores such as Ross, Marshalls and TJ Maxx have stylish designer brands for half of the price, its worth looking through the racks to find that fashionable gem.

Maternity Clothes Swap: My Mommy friends and I have swapped maternity clothes. When one friend is pregnant, she can come by, pick up the items then bring them back when she is finished. This saves time, sanity and money.

Maternity clothes can be expensive, its good to have a strategy so that you can save the time, money and effort, and focus on more important things like preparing for baby while still looking stylish on a budget!

How have you saved on purchasing maternity clothes?

Happy Shopping!

Picture credit: http://www.pregnancy-parenting.becomegorgeous.com/

Our Sweet Pea is 2 Years Old!

2010-11-02T10:08:00.007-04:00

Chocolate, chocolate cupcakes, recipe from the Joy of Vegan Baking...they were delicious!

Sweet Pea and her new Dora Kitchen, thanks Aunt K!

I am grateful for little hands, small kisses and being called "Mama, " a thousand times a day....

I am thankful that she is 2 years old and look forward to many years to come....

Thank you God for the privilege of being a Mommy.....

My Perspective and Priorities

2010-10-27T09:36:00.004-04:00

Lately, I have been distracted with lots of things that may not necessarily be that important.

My priorities are listed in this order: Faith, Family, Home, Ministry, Other.

These days my priorities seem to be: Me, Computer, Family, Faith, Other, Ministry (or something like this).

Because of the disorder of my priorities, I have been in a funk lately and the important areas such as faith, home and family have been slightly neglected and have been somewhat of an irritant to me because I have my own agenda. For example:

Blogging: I am so occupied with making my blog stand out and improving it to be more professional, that I am consumed with gaining more readers, social media, etc.

Research: I have spent more time on the computer researching tips and tricks on how to improve my blog and other areas.

Home: Unfortunately, I am not in the mood to do much of anything. I am sure this has to do with being about 4 weeks away from having baby #2.

Family: I have not been the happiest Mama on the block, every little thing seems to irritate me.

Faith: I am striving to trust God in where He has me, but I am struggling with discontentment and just simply resting in Him.

Ministry: I am concerned about not finishing my discipleship program, so I am anxious about what is going to happen after I have my baby and cannot attend the classes anymore (I only have 6 weeks before I am finish).

As I am writing this I already hear the answer, Trust in the Lord with all my heart and lean not on my own understanding. In all my ways acknowledge Him and He shall direct my paths. Proverbs 3:5-6

Putting it in perspective: My real priorities are what only matters. Blogging and everything else is secondary. I blog because it is something I believe I am supposed to be doing to encourage others and to glorify God, so I cannot be concerned about how and what everyone else is doing to make their blog 'successful.' At the end of the day, if blogging becomes too much of a distraction, I am willing to let it go indefinitely or until I can get focused on what truly matters.

My faith, family, and home comes first.

The Solution:

1. Spend less time on the computer. Monitor my time.

2. Stay focused on the my priorities.

Thanks for reading...

What has been a distraction for you and how did you handle it?

Sunday's Dinner

2010-10-26T06:12:00.010-04:00

Last Sunday, I was in the mood for some comfort food. In particular, I wanted Potatoes Au Gratin (or scalloped potatoes) with veggies and corn bread. Honestly, I don't remember having Potatoes Au Gratin from scratch, what I do remember is having the boxed Betty Crocker version, so with this reference in mind, I took the leap and made my own version from scratch.

I also included my cornbread recipe, I don't remember were I got it from, but my Hubby loves it, so its a keeper!

Not Your Regular Scalloped Potatoes (I couldn't think of a better name, let me know if you have one!)

5 Medium Potatoes, peeled and sliced into this circles

2 TBSP of Smart Balance (or Earth Balance)

3/4 Cup of Daiya Chedder Cheese Shreds

1/2 Cup of White Onions

Garlic Powder (to taste)

Kosher or Sea Salt (to taste)

Fresh cracked ground black pepper (to taste)

1 cup of Almond milk (or your choice of dairy-free milk)

Green Onions (optional)

Preheat oven to 400 degrees.

Grease casserole dish with oil or butter so potatoes will not stick to bottom. Make a layer of potatoes to cover the bottom of the casserole dish, add garlic, salt and pepper to taste. Lightly sprinkle cheese over potatoes. Repeat above with second layer of potatoes (I had about 2 1/4 layers of potatoes).

The Roux: In a medium sauce pan melt butter, then add flour and whisk together. Once you have the buttery lumps from the butter and flour, pour in milk and continue to whisk until smooth, then add the cheese and stir until the roux has thicken. Season with salt and pepper to taste.

Pour roux over potatoes, cover with aluminum foil or casserole top, put into oven for 20 minutes. After the first 20 minutes, uncover casserole dish lightly sprinkle more cheese and green onions and bake for another 20 minutes. Remove from oven and let it rest for 5 minutes.

Comfort Cornbread (this bread is sweet and very moist):

1 Cup of Cornmeal

1 Cup of Flour

1 Cup of Almond milk (or your choice of dairy-free milk)

1/2 Cup Organic Sugar + 2 tsp (if you don't like sweet cornbread, try reducing the sugar to 1/4 cup)

1 tsp of Agave Nectar

1/3 Cup of Vegetable oil

3 Tsp of Ener-G Egg Replacer + 4 Tbsp of Water (mix well until smooth with no apparent white lumps)

1 Tbsp of Baking Powder

1/2 Tsp. of Baking Soda

1/2 Tsp. Salt

Preheat oven to 350 degrees.

Mix together dry ingredients and wet ingredients separately. Form a well in the the dry ingredients, then pour in wet ingredients. Mix together until all ingredients are combined. Pour mixture into a greased baking pan. At 350 degrees bake for 20-25 minutes or until you insert a toothpick in the middle and it comes out clean.

Disclaimer: I am fairly new at writing recipes, so feel free to ask me any questions about any of the recipes I have posted!

BTW, this meal was delicious!

Enjoy!

Savvy Mama Fridays!

2010-10-22T00:00:00.004-04:00

Welcome to Savvy Mama Fridays (SMF)! Savvy Mama Fridays was created to express my creative side. This segment will include creative tips, information, tutorials, and showcase women (especially mommies) who have inspiring businesses. I look forward to meeting you here for Savvy Mama Fridays!

In the meantime, I encourage you to check out a talented young lady who creates stylish and modest fashions. "Christa-Taylor is a clothing with a conscience, donating 5% of all orders to social justice programs around the world."

Unfortunately, Christa-Taylor will be closing their virtual doors soon, but the great news is that they have marked down all of their merchandise for your convenience. I encourage you to check them out, you will be glad you did!

This happens to be my favorite item, isn't it cute!

Works For Me Wednesday: Fighting the Cold and Flu (Revised)

2010-10-20T05:52:00.000-04:00

Originally posted in 2009, I thought this would be a good time to revisit this article and add a few new items, since my family is getting over a cold (I didn't get it, yay!).

A few weeks ago my family came down with a nasty cold, and since I am a breastfeeding mom, I do not have the convenience of popping pills or taking cough syrup (I really don't like medicine anyway). I decided to research and try some foods that would help fight off our cold. Furthermore, since the flu season here (yuck), its a good idea to prepare our bodies with the nutrients to naturally fight against theses viruses.

First, let's start with something as simple as washing our hands regularly. I have received a lot of slack from my family for frequently wiping and washing Sweet Pea's hands, no I do not have OCD (they probably think so), but this simple act can make a huge difference in preventing germs that can turn into a cold virus. Whilst good 'ole soap and water works best, you should also keep a bottle of sanitizer on hand when you are on the go.

Getting your daily dosage of Vitamin C-Vitamin C is a immune booster which we can be consumed daily through vitamins, but is most effective through foods. Citrus fruits such as oranges, tangerines and grapefruits contain a sufficient amount of Vitamin C. Other foods that have Vitamin C are potatoes, green peppers, strawberries and pineapples.

Vitamin D-Low levels of Vitamin D increase our chances of becoming flu-ridden. Naturally, we receive Vitamin D from the sun, however, we may not be able to get a sufficient amount this way, but we can supplement with Vitamin D rich foods such as milk, salmon, eggs and oatmeal or by taking a vitamin supplement that contains at least 200 IUs.

Cod Liver Oil- This is my Grandmother's secret weapon, I can still taste and smell this stuff. Although not the best in taste, Cod liver oil is also rich in Vitamin D and has many other health benefits. These days, Cod Liver Oil comes in pills and lemon flavor which makes it easier to chug down.

Chicken Noodle Soup-This classic comfort food helps to relieve inflammation and congestion. You can also make this version of Vegan 'Chicken' Noodle Soup.

Garlic- Add garlic to your favorite foods, it is believed to be a antioxidant and a decongestant.

Ginger is recommended for reducing fever, coughing and an upset stomach.

Hot Tea-Tea is known as an antioxidant. Add honey, ginger and lemon to your hot tea to help combat cold symptoms. This concoction recently helped my husband with his horrible congestion, it was more effective than the medicine he was taking.

Fluids-Stay hydrated with healthy fluids like water and 100% juice, sugar filled drinks will suppress the immune system.

Yogurt contains Probiotics which are the "good" bacteria that helps boost the immune system.

Here are some of the new additions I plan to try to ward off the flu this season. Adapted from Nancy Campbell's, of Above Rubies, article "Beat the Flu this Season":

Grapefruit Seed Extract

Vitamin C Tablets

Coconut Oil

Cold and Flu Fighter

1/2 chopped onion

One bulb of chopped garlic

2 tbsp of fresh ginger root

1 chopped jalapeno

Put all ingredients in a quart jar, cover with raw vinegar and let it sit for 4-6 weeks. Strain out the vegetables and use 2 tbs or more each day. If you get a cold or flu, take every hour.

I hope this gets your family started on the path to good health!

Quick Breakfast: Healthy Banana Muffins

2010-10-18T09:49:00.012-04:00

Muffins are a quick and convenient grab and go breakfast and/or snack for you and your family. They are versatile, you have the freedom to make them as creative, delicious and nutritious as you desire .

Below is a my recipe for healthy banana muffins. In our home, these muffins don't last a week!

Healthy Banana Muffins:

2-3 Large Bananas, well mashed (the more ripe, the sweeter)

1 Cup of Unbleached flour (I prefer King Arthur's)

1 1/2 Teaspoons + 2 Tablespoons of water of Ener-G Egg Replacer, mix well until smooth with no apparent white lumps

1/2 Cup of Rolled Oats

1/2 Cup of Smart Balance (or Earth Balance), melted

3/4 Cups + 1 Tablespoon of *Agave Nectar

1 Teaspoon of Salt

1 Teaspoon of Baking Soda

1 Cup of Nuts, optional

1 Teaspoon of Cinnamon, optional

1 Teaspoon of Vanilla Extract, optional

Mix all dry ingredients together, create a well in the middle of the dry ingredients, then mix together all wet ingredients and pour into the well created in the dry ingredients bowl. Mix until smooth. Pour into a greased loaf pan or muffin pan (makes 12 muffins). Bake at 350 degrees for 30 minutes (please check regularly as everyone's oven is different), insert a knife or toothpick, which will come out clean once the bread or muffins are done.

* If this is your first time using Agave Nectar, please read here my review on this product.

Enjoy!

New Look, New Direction

2010-10-16T09:43:00.005-04:00

Dear Readers,

There was a slight delay in presenting my blog makeover. Unfortunately, I am grieving the loss of my lab top and our desktop PC is trying to hang on. So please pray that we can get a new computer as our computers have all been second hand, and with a little tlc, have gotten the job done.

So what do you think? I would love to receive your feedback on the new look of Memoirs of the New Wife.

Have a great weekend!

Blog Makeover!

2010-10-11T10:14:00.004-04:00

Dear Readers,

I am so excited to share with you, that this week, I am working on some major blog changes. Please stay tuned. The BIG reveal will be this Friday!

Thanks for your patience!

~Nisha

Savings At Costco and tonight's meal!

2010-10-04T07:56:00.010-04:00

Happy Monday!

Yesterday, was my first day shopping at Costco and I was pleased with my purchases and savings. I have been researching and trying out (free-trial basis) the warehouse membership stores for over a year now. I was not sure if joining one of these stores was worth the time, money and effort. I have read mixed reviews on warehouse membership stores vs. regular grocery stores. After much research and discussions with friends, who shop at the warehouses, I decided to go with Costco. I chose Costco because they seem to have more of the items I am use and am willing to buy in bulk.

Here are some of the items I bought and plan to buy as staples items from Costco from now on. (Mind you, these items happen to be a better buy in bulk than buying them at my local grocery store):

3 lbs of Bananas- $1.35

5lbs of Plaintains- $1.99

Nature Valley's Trail Mix Granola Bars- $8.79 (with $3 in-store coupon)

Agave Nectar 2/ 23.5 oz bottles: $7.75 (Great buy!)

Boca Burgers 16ct: $9.49

Kirland's Eco-Detergent (natural ingredients): $11.19 (w/ $2.50 in-store coupon)

My membership at Costco is $50 a year. I believe it is worth it because I am able to buy healthy food items in bulk, which allows me to save time and money.

On to other things...

I am trying to make an effort to post more of the foods I cook and eat. Tonight's meal is potato soup, salad and bread. This picture is from a previous soup night. This particular night I made a version of Fatfree Vegan Kitchen's Quick and Easy Potato Soup and All Hail Kale Salad from Trayce McQuirter's book,"By Any Greens Necessary." I enjoyed the meal, especially the Kale, since eating it raw is sorta new to me. BTW, the soup is topped with Daiya vegan chedder style shreds (the best cheese alternative I have found!) and Tofutti's Better than Sour Cream, both purchased at Whole Foods.

How do feel about warehouse memberships? Are they helpful to your grocery budget?

My Mommy Moment: Chai Tea Latte from Starbucks!

2010-09-29T10:55:00.006-04:00

Wednesdays is "Toddler Tales" day at our local library, I strive to take Sweet Pea almost every Wednesday. Usually, after the end of story time, we stick around so she and I can pick out some books. Well, today was the day that she decided to throw a mini tantrum and say 'no' to every instruction given to her. On any other day, this would have probably been a small thing. But not today, with 9 weeks to go in my pregnancy, juggling a purse full of stuff, books and a toddler. I was not in the mood! So, before I had my own mommy tantrum, I took a deep breath and decided quickly to forgo my own library time. We made a bee line to the check out desk and got out of dodge!

I thought to myself, "Whew, I need a Chai Tea," I went straight to Starbucks to get Mommy her own treat for not losing it in the library and being featured on tonight's 6 'o clock news. Once we got to the Starbucks, Sweet Pea was fine and I had the opportunity to interact with some of the adults in my community...this moment brought me a small dose of sanity and relaxation!

Have you had a Mommy moment lately?

Great Baby Finds on Craigslist!

2010-09-23T06:34:00.001-04:00

As we are quickly approaching the due date of precious baby #2 (yay!), there are a few essential items we are in need of before baby's arrival. With that said, I am excited to share with you my wonderful Craigslist find! Yesterday, we picked up an Arm's Reach co-sleeper bassinet for $50, regular retail price $139.99! The bassinet was at the top of our list. I have been pricing this item for the last several months, looking for the best buy and quality. I am so happy that we found this one, we got much more than we were looking for!

I recommend giving Craigslist try, here are a few buyer tips to get you started:

Ask for pictures, if none are attached to listing.
When buying baby items ask for model and brand, research the item to check if there have been any recalls or negative reviews.
If you are ready to buy, notify the seller and arrange for pick-up!

Craigslist is a great resource for saving money and finding items at a fraction of the price.

Happy Shopping!

Homemade Skin Care

2010-09-20T11:13:00.000-04:00

For some time now, I have had difficulty picking up just any product to put on my family's skin. Especially my daughter's skin. I am certainly apprehensive about the list of chemicals (that are hard to pronounce) in some of the most post popular commercial lotion and soap brands. Because of this, I decided to take the natural route, which usually means more money spent out of pocket. To solve this dilemma, I have daydreamed about making my own skincare products for my family. This is something I have finally achieved and truly enjoy. The first product I made was a skin cream or lotion that can be used by everyone! Here is what I did:

Ingredients:

100% Shea Butter
Aloe Vera Oil
Olive Oil
Coconut Oil

Furthermore, I was recently motivated to create my own products because using some of the natural and organic product lines available, I noticed that there seemed to be an underlying belief system that I do not necessarily embrace, so for me, that means not using these product anymore.

Combine in bowl:

5oz of Shea Butter
1Tbsp of Aloe Vera Oil
2 Tbsp of Olive Oil
2 Tbsp of Coconut oil

Blend with an electric mixer (or hand blender or whatever you have available) until smooth and creamy.

Final Product:

Store cream in a sealed container preferably in a dark cool place like a linen closet or in your bathroom cabinet.

Lastly, here are some of the health benefits in the ingredients used above:

Shea Butter: Contains vitamin E & F, treats dry skin, eczema, minor burns, diaper rashes, etc.

Coconut Oil: Prevents dry and flaky skin and skin problems such as psoriasis, dermatitis, eczema and other skin infections

Olive Oil: Skin moisturizer, antioxidant properties that protect the skin, helps in slowing down fine lines and wrinkles.

Aloe Vera Oil: Skin rejuvenator, assists in speedy recovery of wounds, moisturizer, anti inflammatory, assists in curing arthritis.

Disclaimer: I would advise that you do extensive research on the types of oils,butters and herbs to use when in experimenting with making your own products. Some oils, herbs and butters should not be used on babies or during pregnancy.

I hope these easy steps have encouraged you to experiment with making you own products for your family!

Happy Homemaking!

Eating Healthy on a Budget: Aldis

2010-09-13T16:30:00.000-04:00

We have returned from our annual trip to Michigan, which was fun and relaxing, we had a great time being with family. Honestly, this trip was too short and I look forward to longer trips with our family. Now, that we are back, I needed to make a grocery store trip to replenish the food supply. I decided to try out our Aldi's, they just opened in our area last month. In the past, I enjoyed shopping at Aldis due to their good selection of produce and other items that seem to be hidden treasures at a great price. Well, I am glad to report, I was not disappointed with my purchase.

I spent about $20 dollars on fruits and vegetables ranging from $.29 to $4.99. Some of the items I purchased were peaches, plums, blueberries, tomatoes, 10lb bag of potatoes, squash, zucchini and bananas.

I recommend Aldi's as a regular shopping place for produce and other items. You can definitely eat healthy and save money by doing some of your shopping at Aldi's. Most of the produce is from the USA, except for 'exotic' fruit like pineapples and mangoes. Because of the modest parking lots, and providing or paying for your own bags, Aldis is able to give you the the lowest prices on items without adding on any hidden fees.

I am in the middle of writing my first e-book, Eating Healthy on a Budget and Aldi's is one of the stores I recommend in addition to a local grocer, co-op and/or membership warehouse.

Quick tips for first timers shopping at Aldi:

1. Bring your own shopping bags (you can use any type of shopping bag) as you will have to pay $.10 for each of their grocery bags. However, this is not so much of an inconvenience, just save your bags for your next shopping trip.

2. Make sure you have a quarter, you have to insert a quarter to use one of their shopping baskets. You get the quarter back after you return the basket, I usually keep the quarter in my coin tray in the car, so I don't have to search for one every time I shop there.

Give them a try! Visit http://www.aldi.com/ for weekly specials and discounts.

Healthy Deals and Freebies

2010-09-02T00:00:00.002-04:00

I love great deals, especially freebies! Here are a few from some of my favorite health-conscious brands.

Burt Bees is offering a free tube of Multicare with fluoride: PROMO1, free tube of Multicare without fluoride: PROMO2 and $1 off coupon for their toothpaste products.

Kashi is offering a free sample snack, trade in your "not-so-healthy favorite" for a Kashi snack!

Seventh Generation is offering $1-2 off coupons on their products, you can only receive these coupons by becoming a member of their website.

Enjoy!

Unexpected Break...

2010-08-31T09:12:00.009-04:00

Whoever said that each pregnancy is different, were right! Last Saturday night, I was having serious pain in my upper and lower abdominal. The pain was so bad that it made it difficult to walk or sit without having support. This was very frustrating and discouraging, what I thought would last a day or two lasted an entire week. I could not understand why this was happening to me...me who strives to take care of her body, and need this body to take care of my family on a daily basis. In my distress, I prayed and reached out to dear friends, and the message repeated to me was that God is trying to get my attention...and indeed He was! I had plenty of time to sit and listen to what He had to say to me through His Word and Holy Spirit:

Be still and know that I am God (Psalm 46:10). I learned that I try to control and fix just about everything in my life. Through this experience, I realized how much I needed to depend on God. This was an area in which I could not fix.

Trust in the Lord with all your heart and lean not on your own understanding. In all your ways Acknowledge Him. And He shall direct your paths (Prov. 3:5-6). Lack of trust: I was not relying on God to handle my concerns. I began to really understand what Proverbs 3: 5-6 meant during my time of rest.

The righteous cry out, and the Lord hears, And delivers them out of all their troubles (Psalm 34:17). Humility, I humbled myself and cried out to the Lord regarding my circumstances.

Many are the afflictions of the righteous, But God delivers them out of them all (Psalm 34:20). God is faithful, today, I am much better, pain free and off of bed rest.

I learned that sometimes God has to sit us down in unexpected ways to get our attention. I also realize, as wife and mom, I can get so caught up in the everyday business of taking care of family, home and other things, that I miss hearing what God has to say to me. Lastly, this situation reminded me that listening to God makes life much easier on a good or bad day.

Are there areas in which you need to trust God and let go of?

Delicious Vegan (Dairy Free) Waffles and Menu Planning Tips

2010-08-09T14:40:00.010-04:00

Happy Tuesday!

In the past year, I have come to learn that having a menu plan makes life so much easier. Yes, it takes time to sit down and come up with breakfast, lunch and dinner ideas, but its worth the effort. Once you have compiled your choices of meals, cooking regularly for your family won't seem like a pain in the you know what!

I have tested out different ways to create a meal plan. Here are a couple of ideas that have worked for me....

1. Simple pencil and paper method: Simply, write out your meals for the upcoming week (or two) for each day of the week (Sun-Sat). I found this very helpful template at momadvice.com

2. Spreadsheet: This happens to be my most current method, for now, its easier for me to just open my excel sheet and review my meal plan. Create a spreadsheet in Microsoft Excel or Google Spreadsheet, make a column for each day of the week. I also, have a subtitle for each week i.e., Week 1, Week 2, etc. My goal is to have 7 weeks completed, so that I can have a variety of menu plans to refer to. This method takes a little bit of computer savvy, as you will need to merge cells, wrap text and design a spreadsheet that accommodates you.

Finally, this maybe a method I try in the near future. Note cards: I found this idea on the Mogul Mom. Basically, you write 30 full meals and recipes on a note card, so when you need a meal you just randomly pick your breakfast, lunch or dinner from one of these cards (in her article she only does dinner ideas). This seems easy and convenient, the hard part is coming up with 30 meals!

To get you started, here is a great article on basic menu planning from simplemom.net

I have eaten these delicious waffles, made from Dawn's Vegan Waffles recipe at Vegweb.com, for three consecutive mornings...maybe its the pregnancy cravings! Whatever it is, they have been good every time. I just keep the extra batter covered and refrigerated until the next morning, or you could make the entire batter and freeze the extras.

However, I did make some modifications: I used 2 teaspoons of olive oil instead of 1/4 cup, 1 cup of 'original' almond milk, 1 teaspoon of pure vanilla extract and 1/4 teaspoon of baking soda (the baking soda makes them light and fluffy). My modifications were based on personal preference and what I had available in my kitchen. I reccommend trying the original recipe before making any changes.

These waffles are the best I have ever made, the wonderful thing is that I don't even miss the eggs and milk from my original waffle recipe (which has been replaced by this recipe)!

Enjoy.

Tips for Making Hometown Visits More like a Vacation Spot

2010-08-05T10:24:00.007-04:00

Every year, we plan a summer trip to Michigan, my hometown, to visit my family. During our annual planning discussion, I always call it a vacation to Michigan, but my Husband does not look at it as a vacation. Why? Because, while we are there we stay with relatives and I am chose to cook and clean as if I am at home. Honestly, I had not looked at our trip from the perspective of a "non-vacation," as I have always stayed with my family and helped out where needed.

However, now that I am married and have a family of my own, there are other things and people to consider. Here are a few things I have done to make our trip more of a vacation:

Reserved (in advance) a nice Hotel at a great price!-We can enjoy the amenities of our Hotel, and have a space of our own. Additionally, we can visit our local family without the obligation of accommodating us.

By staying at a hotel, we can plan our own schedule and come and go as we please.

Planned activities such as museum visits, go-carts (for hubby) and a zoo visit. Sadly, in my 18years of living in my city, I don't believe I ever visited some of these places!

Made plans to have dinner with family. I plan to do this most days we are in Michigan, so that we can spend quality time with our family, which is the primary reason for our visit.

I believe that these changes will make our trip more restful and enjoyable for everyone! I hope these tips will help you on your next hometown visit!

Have a great weekend!

The Peculiar Life Pt.1: Eating Habits

2010-08-05T09:28:00.007-04:00

During my morning time with God, for many mornings, I sense the conviction of drastically changing my eating habits. For months, I tried to reason with myself by saying, "I eat pretty healthy....I don't need to change, its just me being hard on myself." Obviously, this was not the truth, because the topic continuously reappeared in conversations with friends. Finally, I decided to accept the change, and obedient to the gentle instruction of the Holy Spirit. So what is the change you ask?

As of May 2010, I have removed diary products and meats from my diet, as mentioned above, this is based on spiritual conviction and health reasons (in which I will discuss in a later post). For now, I still am eating some seafood and items that may contain eggs as an ingredient (this is mainly when I am having dinner out, at home I am not consuming eggs). I guess this makes me about 85-90% Vegan, thus far.

The most challenging part of this change was the sacrifice of removing the dairy. No meat is not a problem as I have been vegetarian before, but dairy, this is when I had to say, "God, is that really you?!" Personally, I was addicted to dairy! Butter, ice cream, cheeses, yogurt, etc...these were everyday staples for me! During the beginning months of my dairy withdrawal...it was awful for everyone. As the saying goes, "If mama ain't happy, nobody is happy." However, after much crying and pouting (pregnancy hormones), I would get up wipe my face and make the best of my situation. I have learned how to eat and cook new meals, drink and eat non-dairy products that are pretty tasty as well as educate myself through reading and Internet research on my new lifestyle change.

Is everyone excited about my new change, no. My family has southern roots, which includes good, rich, flavorful southern cooking...so choosing to have a non-meat and diary free diet is not easily understood. Interestingly, connecting diseases like high blood pressure, diabetes and heart disease to the African American diet is not always understood or accepted either.

Since changing my diet, I have already seen positive results. I have horrible allergies in the summer, and thus far, I have not had any allergies! Also, my glucose, blood pressure and cholesterol levels are great! Lastly, I have friends who have been convicted about their eating as well and have a similar diet, having this type of support system keeps me motivated and encouraged, as I am not on this journey alone.

I know their is a significant reason for God prompting me to change in this area. So far, I have learned what is means to deny myself (Luke 9:23), and being a peculiar individual in the eyes of the Lord.

I what areas have been challenged to make a change? Have you made the first step?

But you are a chosen generation, a royal priesthood, a holy nation, His own special people, that you may proclaim the praises of Him who called you out of darkness into His marvelous light; (1 Peter 2:9, New King James Version)

I'm Back!

2010-08-03T11:24:00.006-04:00

Hello....

I am back from a much needed break! I had time to contemplate about blogging and to find out what I really wanted to share with my readers.

Blogging for the last 2.5 years has been a challenge and a joy. The best part about blogging is getting the unexpected e-mails and comments from my readers about how my modest space in the blogosphere has blessed them in many ways!

What I have learned is that it is not about the quantity, but the quality of what I am writing and that if only one person is reached that is quite all right.

Personally, I have had the time to really think about the how, why and what of this blog, and the areas in which I would like to improve. God wired me as a very creative, artsy type person, so I have hundreds of ideas daily! However, I know that I cannot put all of my ideas in this one blog...so I have tried to narrow them down (this is sooo hard for me). I have decided to continue to focus on my life experiences and interests, with a some occasional tips and features in a more polished presentation.

So I hope you decide to stick around as I continue my journey as a newbie wife, mother of 2 come November! and homemaker...I am still learning the ins and outs of the whole blog thing, so please bear with me in the changes and updates to my blog as I strive to make a place of inspiration for my readers.

If you have any tips, please feel free to leave a comment or two!

~Nisha

Taking a Break...

2010-04-24T12:32:00.005-04:00

Dear Readers,

Thank you so much for visiting. It has been my pleasure writing, informing and encouraging through this blog. I give all glory to the Lord for the wisdom to write at this capacity. At this time, I am taking an indefinite break. During this season , there are many things, that need my attention.

Here is an update of what has been going on:

We bought our first home last month! Praise God!
We are expecting baby #2! Hallelujah!
I am in a 9 month discipleship program to build my relationship with the Lord, to learn how He wants me to serve through the gifts, talents and personality he has given me, to advance His kingdom! What a privilege!
Doing all the above, while striving to honor God at home as a Wife, Mother and Homemaker!

Memoirs of the New Wife will stay available for your convenience.

Thanks again for your comments and encouragement.

God Bless You and Stay Encouraged,

Nisha

PS: Please feel free to send your e-mail to a . muschette @ gmail . com to stay connected with future projects.

Why Do We Celebrate Easter?

2010-04-03T08:36:00.008-04:00

This morning's journal entry:

" Lord today is Saturday, the day after Jesus was crucified for my sins, and the sins of everyone else on this earth. Wow, thinking of the suffering He went through just for us is hard to fathom! Jesus who knew no sin, became the sacrificial lamb....for me. My sinful...sin-ridden self. Just for me who is unworthy...me in all my "goodness" is still nothing more than filthy rags. But, yes but, tomorrow represents a new day and reminder of a new beginning. He has risen as the One and only True and LIVING God. The only One who died and rose again. My Redeemer lives!"

The very truth of Easter is the rising of our living Saviour Jesus the Christ. After being beaten, ridiculed, humiliated and crucified for our sins. He paid the price that we should have paid for ourselves. That is one of the key reasons we serve Him! Who else would do this for you and I?! Please do not be distracted by bunnies, chocolate, candies and baskets. As well as flamboyant suits with matching 'gaitors,' sequin dresses, little girls with tulle up to their necks and little boys itching to get out of the imprisonment of a three piece suit on a hot sunny day! This may be a fun tradition, but please don't take it too serious...because it is not important. Let us seriously consider the real reason for the Easter Holiday and why it is celebrated. The rising of our Lord Jesus, the reason for our existence.

Read Matthew 26-28

Have a Wonderful Easter!

Baby Steps to Healthy Eating

2010-03-14T17:44:00.002-04:00

Previously, I wrote about being an example to our families regarding healthy eating. Deciding to eat healthy was not a natural choice for me, since some of my favorite foods includes sweets like ice cream, chocolate, cookies, etc. I know that I cannot eat these items regularly, but if I could, Oh boy, I would. It can be so discouraging going to the grocery store and skipping the aisles with the cheaply priced processed foods to select the good foods (on the perimeter of the store) that cost an arm and leg in comparison.

Sometimes I think, why can't I just eat that stuff? I will have more food and more money in my pocket. However, I know that purchasing the cheapest prepackaged foods is not the choice for me or my family. As we discussed in the last post, I have a responsibility. I am accountable to myself and family.

As I continue to strive to eat healthy, and eliminate items from my diet, I have learned a few helpful things that makes the transition a little easier. I consider them to be necessary baby steps to healthy eating. Here are a few:

Don't throw away the foods you already have, unless you have the money to do so. Changing your eating habits is a process. If you are not interested in eating refined sugar, I suggest finishing what you have, then buying the new alternative such as Sugar in the Raw, Organic sugar cane juice, agave nectar, honey, etc. This way you are saving money and in some cases your own sanity.
Don't want to get rid of some of your favorite brands? Search for healthier versions. Many popular brands (i.e., Arnold's, Jiffy, Kashi, Oscar Meyer, Quaker ) have heard the consumers cry and jumped on the healthy lifestyle bandwagon.

Gradually incorporate new recipes into your repertoire. If you want to start eating healthier, you have to learn how to cook differently. Just thinking about the extra work involved alone can be discouraging, but have no fear! There are many people who are choosing a healthier lifestyle and blogging about it. Foodies like Katheats, Cheap Healthy Good, and 100 top healthy food blogs will give you the motivation to get off to a good start.

Happy Healthy Eating!

Creating Good Eating Habits in Our Families

2010-02-22T11:07:00.005-05:00

The other day, I was having a conversation with my SIL, and she complimented Sweet Pea's eating habits. That day for her snack she had sliced apples and some cheese. I began telling her that Sweet Pea also enjoys carrots, mangoes, bananas, spinach and sweet potatoes. Later that day, I thought about our conversation, and reminded myself of this key thing:

Our children are a blank slate we influence them in every way including their diets. We have the choice to offer them fruits, vegetables and occasionally sweets and other goodies or sweets, goodies and occasionally fruits and vegetables. What we feed our children is our responsibility. Whether good or bad, we create their eating habits.

I encourage you to introduce your children to whole fruits and vegetables. Here are a few tips to get you started:

1. Be the example. If you do not eat fruits and vegetables, why should your children have to eat them?

2. Learn. If possible, take your children to the grocery store and teach them about various fruits and vegetables. Allow them to touch and feel the different textures and select a few to take home.

3. Make it a habit. Regularly include fruits with breakfast or as a snack. Also, have a vegetable side dish with each meal.

4. Get creative. Buy different fruits and vegetable during each shopping trip. Add fruit to your meals and roast, bake, fry or prepare raw veggies.

Here is a website to help us find a variety of fruit choices and their benefits.

I know this is not the easiest task, it is so much easier to grab the boxed snacks and foods, but we have such a higher standard to uphold. Moms be encouraged, the unseen labor we put forth to nurture and nourish our families, is seen by the God-Who-Sees.

¹⁴ She is like the merchant ships,
She brings her food from afar.
¹⁵ She also rises while it is yet night,
And provides food for her household....
(Proverbs 31:14-15, New King James Version)

²⁸ Her children rise up and call her blessed;
Her husband also, and he praises her:
(Proverbs 31:28, New King James Version)

Surrender

2010-02-17T20:53:00.005-05:00

Today was a sort of interesting day. I felt like I was a little off most of the day, nothing seemed to go my way. Since, nothing seemed to work for me today, I took my frustration out on my family. It was nothing nice.

Finally, I just needed a moment by myself, so I decided to take a shower. The shower is where I have the most privacy. I can cry, pray, think, talk to myself, etc. without interruption. I cried out to God, "I am tired, I can no longer do this." What is this, you ask? Trying to do things myself, like being a wife, mother, daughter, friend, homemaker, entrepreneur and more. I mean really, not like before, when I would say I gave it to God and then put my hands back in it.

No, today, I truly surrendered all to Jesus.

²⁸ Come to Me, all you who labor and are heavy laden, and I will give you rest. ²⁹ Take My yoke upon you and learn from Me, for I am gentle and lowly in heart, and you will find rest for your souls. ³⁰ For My yoke is easy and My burden is light.” (Matthew 11:28-30, New King James Version)

Free 6-Month Subscription from Thriving Family Magazine

2010-02-08T19:58:00.005-05:00

Focus on the Family is one of my favorite ministries. They provide such wonderful encouragement for today's families. Focus on the Family is now offering a free 6-month subscription and e-newsletter for their magazine Thriving Family. I have already signed-up for my free subscription and I look forward to its arrival. I am sure each issue will be filled with great information on developing healthy and positive family living.

Sign-up here to get your own subscription! (scroll to bottom of webpage for details)

Thanks, Crystal!

Mmmm.... Homemade Granola Bars

2010-02-03T13:31:00.009-05:00

This was my first time making granola bars that actually came out pretty good. We love granola bars, but they can be expensive, full of sugar and other not-so-good stuff. I was able to get about twenty bars out of this batch. I put some in the cookie jar and froze the rest.

Here is the recipe:

1 cup Organic sugar (regular will do fine, or any other natural sweetner)

2/3 cup Natural peanut butter

1/2 cup Honey

1/2 cup Butter

2 tsp. Pure vanilla extract

3 cups Old fashion rolled oats

1/3 cup Flour

1/2 cup Shredded Coconut

1/2 cup Sunflower seeds or any other type of nuts (optional)

1/2 cup Craisins or dried fruit of your choice

Combine sugar, peanut butter, honey, butter, vanilla extract in a large bowl. Stir until mixed together well.

Stir in remaining ingredients until well combined. Mixture will look like very wet granola.

Place granola mix on cookie sheet lined with parchment paper, lightly sprayed with cooking oil.

Bake at 375 degrees for 20-25 minutes or until golden brown. Let is cool.

Cut baked granola into bars, then, gently peel bars from parchment paper.

Wrap each granola bar with plastic wrap.

Your done!

Enjoy!

Daughters in Preparation: In the Meantime...

2010-01-28T06:59:00.009-05:00

Most of our DIP discussions have been on understanding dating from a God-centered perspective. Again, I am glad to see that these topics have been helpful and engaging to many of my readers.

This year, the topics will focus more on what should be accomplished in the meantime. As singles, there is so much more to life than being concerned about a mate. I am not trying to discourage you in your desire to have a godly mate, however in the interim, God has a purpose for you to fulfill now. While I was single, I too, prayed for a mate and shared with God the desires of my heart by writing out my prayer in a personal journal. I learned to give my desires to Him and live my life. By doing this, it freed me to do things I believed he wanted me to accomplish.

One of the most significant things I did was develop a liturgical dance summer workshop in my hometown for two years. I knew this was purposed by God because it was bigger than anything I could have imagined. First off, the church was pastored by an Uncle I had only met once or twice in my life (mind you, I do not know many of my relatives on my Father's side of the family). I prayed about the venue, and, courageously called him to present my proposal for the dance workshop and he gladly accepted. Also, to achieve this project, I was able to use my vacation time at work. I was blessed by the participation of the community, and with the close relationship I have cultivated with my Uncle Earnest. He has been a true blessing in my life! I was so fulfilled by serving others through the gifts and talents God has given me, that I was not focused on a mate. Honestly, I was enjoying my singleness and had decided in my heart that if God did not have a mate for me, I could live with that decision. It is up to God to provide a mate for us. This may be a hard pill to swallow, but it is the truth.

Personally, I believed in my heart that God had a mate for me and I had to trust Him with the choice and the timing.

As I continued to pursue my relationship with God and His purposes, this is when He unexpectedly presented my husband-to-be to pursue me, key word here pursue, you are to be pursued, you are not he pursuer....but we will talk about that later.

In the meantime, you may want to ask God what His will is for your life. Do you know what your gifts and talents are? What should you be doing?

¹¹ For I know the thoughts that I think toward you, says the LORD, thoughts of peace and not of evil, to give you a future and a hope. (Jeremiah 29:11, New King James Version)

Free Udder Covers Promotion

2010-01-27T14:57:00.006-05:00

In hindsight, I wish I would have purchased a nursing cover in the beginning stages of breastfeeding. I see friends with them and they seem to be so discreet and comfortable for Mama and baby. I just used the good 'ole fashion blanket, my shirt and then I found a pretty sarong I had that I used as a cover. These items are okay, but, Sweet Pea learned to remove anything that covered her face....and this was not the best experience while nursing in public. What I like most about the covers is that they fit like an apron, so they are not easily pulled off.

For you newbie mommas, here is a great promotion from Udder Covers. Visit their site here, pick one of the cute designs (valued at $32.00), enter the code Family2010 and get your free Udder Covers. However, you are responsible for shipping and handling, which is $9.95.

This is a great item to have for yourself or as a gift for a new mommy.

Enjoy

Abba, Father!

2010-01-26T07:26:00.005-05:00

I enjoy watching my Husband care for our daughter. He is so proud to be a father, and he takes his role very seriously. Personally, their relationship blesses me, my parents divorced when I was very young, and I did not have this experience with my biological father. Although, my step-father played a significant role in my life, I have never had a relationship like the one I witness with my husband and daughter. I am truly grateful for the privilege of having a family of my own.

It was not until I gave my life to Christ, that I can now say with so much joy I know beyond human relationship, the unconditional love of the Father. When I think about the sacrificial, gentle, kind, protective, patient attributes of my Father, the Lord...I get overwhelmed! I am His child, His heir, I am precious to Him. God allows me to see a father's love through my husband. The Bible says, "If you then, being evil, know how to give good gifts to your children, how much more will your Father who is in heaven give good things to those who ask Him!(Matthew 7:11~NKJV). In this example, the Lord is telling us that, if you think human love is great, My love is AWESOME...there is nothing like it!

In my Father's love, I will rest...there is no one, no thing like it! I pray that you too will experience the beautiful love of the Father, through Jesus Christ. I dare you!

"SEE WHAT [[a]an incredible] quality of love the Father has given (shown, bestowed on) us, that we should [be permitted to] be named and called and counted the children of God! And so we are! The reason that the world does not know (recognize, acknowledge) us is that it does not know (recognize, acknowledge) Him. (1 John 3:1~Amp)

Health Goals for 2010

2010-01-13T16:04:00.006-05:00

This post is for both Monday and Wednesday, I was unable to post earlier this week due to a family emergency.

Last year, during our family's T.V. break (or fast), I spent most of that time praying about God's will for my life and my family. One of the the things, that I believe I am to do, is to take our health habits to the next level. In order to do this, I have to be the example...I found out that this works pretty well. As keeper of my home, I am responsible for what I feed my family. For example, If I decide to buy mostly junk and processed foods (out of convenience), then this is what we will eat. In addition, we are models for our children, we teach them good or bad habits. Personally, this reminds me of how essential my actions and choices are when it comes to my child. Based on the above, here are my health goals for 2010:

1. Include a larger variety of vegetables in our meals.

2. Exercise at least 3 times a week.

3. Eliminate white sugar, and find a healthier alternative. We currently use organic evaporated cane juice (I recently found out that this is a fancy way to say semi-refined sugar), and other natural sweeteners.

4. Introduce more grains like quinoa and couscous.

5. Cook tasty and exciting vegetarian meals twice a week.

6. Replace current deodorant, toothpaste and soaps containing aluminum and SLS with products that have natural ingredients.

Okay, that is it for now, I don't want to be too overwhelming, I am taking baby steps in this process and celebrating each small victory.

I will keep you updated!

¹⁴ She is like the merchant ships,
She brings her food from afar.
¹⁵ She also rises while it is yet night,
And provides food for her household,
And a portion for her maidservants.
(Proverbs 31:14-15, New King James Version)

Savvy Mama Fridays! : Welcome

2010-01-08T22:01:00.005-05:00

Welcome to Savvy Mama Fridays! I am so excited about this new feature, here you will find helpful tips, diy projects, how-tos, inspiration, encouragement, etc.

I have been waiting all day to write my first post for Savvy Mama Friday (SMF), so here I am, late in the evening, typing with determination to get this post up before 12am! This is the absolute best time for me. As most Wives and Moms would agree, the best time to get things done is when the rest of the family is sound asleep.

Today, while finishing up my grocery shopping for the week, I was inspired to post about quick ways to save money while at the market. As a newbie, I have researched so much information about saving money, coupons, meals plans, etc. that the whole idea of saving and penny pinching can be quite discouraging. I have been thinking about how I could make it easier for newbies like myself, so, I have decided to start by giving you these 5 quick tips that will save you money on your next grocery shopping trip:

1. Make a grocery list before leaving home-Shopping lists are so important, they save you money, time and keep you focused on what you need to buy versus what you want. Tip: You can purchase a shopping list pad with magnet from your local Dollar or Craft store (they are usually located in the $1 bins at your craft store).

2. Keep your pad on the refrigerator and regularly write down items you need when you run out of them. This will create half of your shopping list, which is half the battle.

3. Do not shop hungry- Studies have shown that when we go shopping on an empty stomach, we are more likely to impulse buy.

4. Do a quick inventory to know what is in your refrigerator and pantry- this will save the you trouble of purchasing items you already have.

5. Before going shopping, scan your local grocer's weekly circulars for deals on staple items. Tip: If you do not receive the ads by mail, checkout your grocery store's website to view weekly circulars.

Happy Shopping!

DIP: Michelle Hammond Mckinney

2010-01-07T14:25:00.001-05:00

Newbie Wednesdays: The Doctor's Office

2010-01-06T00:00:00.006-05:00

Today, my husband and I will be taking Sweet Pea to her 1 year check up. Personally, I am not a big fan of vaccinations, so usually the night before I am doing research and discussing with my husband what vaccines Sweet Pea will get at each visit. Thus far, she has been on a sort of delayed vaccination schedule, and I am fine with that.

At my last visit, I did not have a good experience. I admit, it was partially my own fault. Don't get me wrong, I really like our Pediatrician and I am comfortable with our choice....but this last visit, was not ideal and it actually prompt me to write this post.

Sometimes as new parents, we question what we know and this puts us in uneasy predicaments. I wanted to take a moment to encourage other Newbie Moms, that your decisions and opinions are what matters most for your family. Although the doctor has the education and experience, you too have the experience and the knowledge as the parent.

Here are some tips that have helped me with our doctor's visits:

1. Pray- I have to pray and trust God with Sweet Pea's health and her doctor visits for my own peace of mind.

1. You are the parent- You are responsible for your child, you spend the most time with them. Please don't consider yourself inadequate when it comes to your child's health. In most cases, you are the expert because you are with your child everyday.

2. Talk to your spouse about your questions and concerns, so that you are on one accord.

3. Ask questions-As we have learned, no question is a stupid question. Bring a list of questions and/or concerns and ask for clarity about things you do not understand.

4. Do your own research- There is so much information available on the Internet. We have no excuses.

5. Talk to other Moms- I find it comforting to talk to other Moms for support.

6. Don't be intimidated by your health professional, you have the right as a parent to decide what is best for your child.

As I am putting on my "big girl" pants, on my way to SP's doctor's appointment, I look forward to sharing with you my visit!

Follow Up: Everything went well at yesterday's appointment! I truly believe the reason was because I gave all of my cares to the Lord, and my husband was there. Honestly, I know I cannot expect all things to be perfect, and I don't, I am flexible and I do listen to my health professionals' advice, but I also know that as parents we too have the responsibility to fully understand and inquire about our children's health.

New Year, New Topics!

2010-01-04T13:53:00.004-05:00

Happy New Year! I hope you all had a wonderful Holiday season. Our family sure did. One of the most memorable moments, was making cookies with Sweet Pea and my husband delievering them to our neighbors for Christmas! Later in the week, both our neighbors agreed that the cookies were yummy. That was a delight to hear, and motivated me to continue this tradition for years to come.

Well, there is no better than the beginning of the New Year to implement to new ideas. I am excited to introduce to you 3 new topics for the year:

Healthy Living Mondays for Newbies- Tips and information for starting a healthy lifestyle.

Newbie Wednesdays- A variety of insightful topics for new moms, wives, homemakers, etc.

Savvy Mama Fridays- I am so thrilled to incorporate my creative side! We will discuss crafting, entrepreneurship, earning extra money from home and more!

I look forward to reading your comments on these new subjects!

~Nisha

Daughters In Preparation

2009-12-24T13:38:00.005-05:00

Dear DIP Readers,

I hope you enjoyed the last series, "No More Sheets," by Juanita Bynum. Although, I heard about it, before displaying the teaching on my blog, I sat down and watched majority of the videos to make sure they related to some of the topics we haved discussed.

Personally, I thought the teaching was powerful! I too learned a lot from this series. This was indeed a impactful series to end the year with. I hope you were able to reflect on her message, and that you would be willing to share your thoughts on it. I would love to read them!

In 2010 (can you believe it!), I look forward to providing you with helpful and encouraging information. Also, leave me a comment or e-mail regarding the topics you would like to learn more about or would like to discuss, and I will try my best to post them.

I am truly blessed to see so many readers referring to the Dating, Soul Ties and Let God Write Your Love Story writings.

I pray that you and your families will have a Merry Christmas and Happy New Year. Let us remember the reason for this season, our Saviour was born!

God Bless,
Nisha
amuschette @ gmail.com

DIP: Juanita Bynum-No More Sheets~Part 9&10 (Final)

2009-12-17T00:00:00.001-05:00

The Beauty Of Breastfeeding

2009-12-15T15:43:00.004-05:00

Previously, I shared with you the benefits of breastfeeding our babies. A week later,I received a wonderful e-mail from Nancy Campbell of Above Rubies Ministries. I wanted to share with you some excerpts from her inspiring newsletter.

"The most common Greek word for 'woman' in the New Testament is gune which means 'woman, wife.' However, Jesus used a more specific word when he answered the Pharisees who asked him about divorce. He used the word thelus which comes from the root word thele. It literally means 'a woman's breast from which a baby sucks to find sustenance and to thrive.' Jesus described the female as a suckling mother. "This is how God made them in the beginning," he reminded them. And God has not yet made a new model! There are many women who do not like to hear this description. To be a suckling mother seems degrading to a career woman. And yet this is who God created us to be. When we embrace children and suckle them at the breast we fulfill our highest destiny."

"The mother who embraces life and suckles a babe at her breast is not wasting her time. She is nourishing a child who potentially bears the image of God--a child who will come forth from her home one day to bring God's love and salvation to many."

"When a mother nurses her baby she produces prolactin, which is known as the "mothering hormone." The more the mother suckles the baby, the more prolactin she produces and therefore the more motherly she becomes. God has divinely endowed the female with a maternal instinct, but when she suckles at the breast this maternalness is enhanced even more. She lives more in the anointing of who God created her to be--to reveal the maternal character of God--His love, compassion, pity and nurturing."

"Some mothers say, "I'm only interested in quality, not quantity" and so they limit their children so they can supposedly give more to the one or two they choose to have. This is a false conception. As her two children grow and go off to school, she is mothering less and less and looks to find fulfillment elsewhere, often going out to work and establishing herself in a career. And so her children receive less of her time. Whereas, when a mother has another baby and suckles the babe at her breast, prolactin kicks in and the motherly hormones pour in again. Not only does her baby benefit from this loving hormone, but her whole family. The love and nurturing spreads out to all her children. This is how God keeps the mother protecting and delighting in her children in the home."

Above Rubies is a ministry to encourage women in their high calling as wives, mothers, and homemakers. Its purpose is to uphold and strengthen family life and to raise the standard of God's truth in the nation.

If you are interested in the entire newsletter feel free to e-mail me and I will send it to you or you can sign up for a free subscription at http://www.aboverubies.org/

DIP: Juanita Bynum-No More Sheets~Part 7 & 8

2009-12-10T15:18:00.002-05:00

WFMW-10 Minute Home Workout Routine!

2009-12-02T09:38:00.010-05:00

After enjoying so many goodies during and after the Thanksgiving holiday, [yes, I admit, I celebrated with food and sweets even after the Holiday!], I am so excited to have found The 10 Minute Home Workout in Parade Magazine.

I was able to find this same workout online to share with you. Now we have no excuses, we are more than capable of squeezing in 10 minutes of exercise 1 to 3 times a week...okay... come on, let's strive for the 3 times a week. Especially, stay at home moms, we could use the extra strength and energy [smile].

Quick Tip: Print out the article, and post it on the refrigerator, so every time you walk in the kitchen you are reminded to take ten minutes to take care of your body, it works for me [well, most of time...let's keep it honest]!

Click here to get started on your 10 minute workout...Enjoy!

Benefits of Breastfeeding

2009-11-23T18:26:00.012-05:00

This week, I am starting a series of posts dedicated to Newbie Mommies and Mommies-to-be. I have been looking forward to writing this series for a while now. I hope this information will be useful for you and baby.

I am an advocate for breastfeeding, the benefits of breastfeeding outweigh those offered by any formula alternative! Some Moms are left in the dark when it comes to giving their baby breast milk. The default decision is most often to give the baby formula. Even in most hospitals, breast milk is not the first choice or recommendation given to a new mom. While pregnant, I undoubtedly knew I was going to breastfeed my baby. However, when asked, some people gave me a side ways glance as if it was abnormal. I heard more about the negative experiences than the positive.

Also, I have to mention as an African American mommy, breastfeeding is not supported nearly as much as it is in other cultures. Statistics show that only 19% of African American women feed their babies past 6 months old, and teenage mothers are less likely to consider breastfeeding at all. Personally, I find this to be unfortunate. I sincerely encourage other Moms of color to consider breastfeeding your beautiful black babies!

Here are some (not all) benefits of breastfeeding:

Baby:

Enhances brain development, studies have shown that breastfed babies have a higher IQ
Acts as a "super-antibiotic "and provides many vital nutrients
Adjusts to baby's growing nutritional needs
Protects against allergies, asthma, eczema and severity of allergic disease
Reduced Risk of SIDS (Sudden Infant Death) Statistics show that out of 87 SIDS reports, only 3 are breastfed.
Reduce in heart disease later in life
Bonding and emotional relationship with Mother
Antibody response to vaccines are higher
Less risk of childhood obesity

Mom:

Reduced risk of breast, ovarian, cervical cancers
Breast milk is free, reducing or eliminating the cost of formula
Develops a special bonding and emotional relationship with baby
Helps Mom lose weight faster after having baby
Breastfed babies are sick less often, which helps reduce health care costs
Some believe breastfeeding helps with spacing out future births

Resources:

Le Leche League

African-American Breastfeeding Alliance

An Easy Guide to Breastfeeding for African American Women

Feel free to e-mail me with any questions...

Happy Breastfeeding!

DIP: Juanita Bynum No More Sheets~Part 5 & 6

2009-11-19T12:37:00.001-05:00

DIP-Juanita Bynum's No More Sheets~Part 3&4

2009-11-12T12:22:00.002-05:00

No Television for the Month of November

2009-11-10T14:42:00.006-05:00

For the remainder of this month, Hubby and I decided to take a break from the T.V. We actually started last Tuesday. Honestly, it has been a relief for me. Although, I was cutting back on television, when he brought the idea to my attention, I knew that it was a much needed sacrifice.

I had been discussing the distractions of television for about a month now with a close girlfriend. I knew in my heart something needed to be done. Thus far, the results of having no television has been so beneficial for my life.

Here is a list of things I have been able to accomplish since not watching the idiot box (this was a term used in the movie "Bamboozled" to describe the television):

-I finally had a baking day, I was able to prepare foods like bulk waffles and French toast sticks (for Sweet Pea), now when we want waffles I can just get them out of the freezer without having to prepare and cook them at the same time. This has saved me so much time!

-Last Saturday night, while preparing dinner, I also prepped Sunday dinner...this was such a great accomplishment! I had been planning to do this for a while now.

-I stick to my morning routine, get dress and exercise, this has made my days easier.

-The days seem so much more relaxing, we are not rushing to watch our favorite shows, football, news, etc.

-I spend more time just playing with Sweet Pea.

-I can read and complete the books on my list for this month.

-I have more time to work on and complete personal projects.

-More time spent with Hubby.

Whew! This is it for now. I will keep you posted on the progress. I will continue to post on how many things I am able to accomplish without the T.V.

If television has become an additional family member, babysitter or just a plain ole' distraction, I dare you to join me on my t.v. break. I would love to hear about your experiences and accomplishments!

DIP: Juanita Bynum-No More Sheets~Part 1 & 2

2009-11-05T12:19:00.003-05:00

Sorry, you have to click here to watch "Part 2," the video embed option was disabled.

Celebrating the Two Most Important People in My Life!

2009-11-02T11:36:00.007-05:00

This weekend was filled with fun,food and family! Last week was Hubby and Sweet Pea's Birthday, their birthdays are two days apart...isn't that precious! For Hubby, Lily and I took him to dinner, he had his favorites ribs and a choclate cake with ice cream...we all enjoyed it. Saturday we celebrated Sweet Pea's 1st birthday at our home with family and friends, she had a ball and she was such a great hostess. She entertained everyone! Lastly on Sunday, Grammah spoiled them with a wonderful homecooked dinner and dessert (Chocolate,Chocolate cake and vanilla bean ice cream mmmmm....!), oh yea... the great is that I too got to benefit from their celebation as well.

Here are some pics from Sweet Pea's Birthday! The theme of her party (in addition to her love for Elmo) was a celebration to God for giving her 1 year of life. We also had a slide show presentation of her 1st year..including her hospital stay and her healthy life ever since...which is a true testament to how good God has been to us!

Enjoy the Pictures:

Daughters in Preparation: Let God Write Your Love Story

2009-10-22T08:30:00.000-04:00

"Live like no one else so later you can live like no one else," this quote from Dave Ramsey has become one of my favorites. Although, he uses it to encourage us to get our finances in shape, I believe it speaks to all aspects of our lives. Allowing God to write our love story will create opportunities and experiences we could have never provided for ourselves.

Here are three key components needed to apply this principle:

Surrender- Give your life to God...EVERYTHING...hand it over to Him. Your goals, desires, career, relationships, attitude, thoughts,heart etc. I know, this is easier said than done. But, what do you have to lose? You have tried it your way and it has not worked, so why not try something different? As pertaining to a mate, give your desire to be married and your ideal mate to the Lord. Matthew 16:25

Trust- Trust and have faith that God can do all things. Trust Him with the big and the small details of your life. Trust Him with choosing your mate for you. Pray for God to choose your mate. Why not? He knows you better than you know yourself and He knows what is best for you. Psalm 37:5-6

Make yourself available-Be in the right place, at the right time, with the right people. How do you do this? By using proper judgment and common sense. You cannot be in the old crowd, doing old things and going to the old places. You have become a new creation in Christ, old things have passed away. Let's be clear, it is highly unlikely that you will find your mate at a club you use to attend regularly, or that your mate may be a previous boyfriend from your former lifestyle that is still living that life. 2 Corinthians 5:17

I know change can be difficult, but I am praying for you and believe you can do all things through Christ who gives you strength!

Please feel free to e-mail me with any questions amuschette at gmail dot com

Picture courtesy of www.media.ing.com

What Works For Me Wednesday: Cheap and Green Homemade Cleaning Products

2009-10-21T12:29:00.003-04:00

I cheated just a little with today's WFMW [bashful smile]. This is one of my previous posts, I wanted to bring into the spot light, once again, for those who may have missed it. Enjoy!

When I found out I was pregnant with Sweet Pea, I decided that I would fade out our commercial cleaners and learn to make my own. The most important reasons for wanting to do this, was because of the effects of harsh chemicals used in our daily cleaning products.

After researching some of these items, this is what found:

Bleach contains Sodium Hypochlorite which is corrosive, it can cause burns to the eyes, skin damage, burns to the mouth, throat and stomach if swallowed. Also a respiratory irritant (i.e., can cause Asthma attacks)

Johnson's Baby Shampoo contains Quaternium 14, a carcinogen and causes dermatitis.

Fantastic Formula 409 contains Butyle Cellosolve a Nuerotoxin, skin and eye irritant. Damage to the central nervous system, kidney and liver. Readily absorbed through skin. Damages blood and the body's ability to make blood.

Window Aerosol Glass Cleaner contains Butyle Cellosolve and Isobutane a Nuerotoxin (see above)
Lysol Disinfectant contains Dioxin a carcinogen. 500,000 times more deadly than DDT and Ethyl Alchohol which causes eye, skin, and a respiratory tract irritant.

Now that we are aware of the toxins used in our everyday cleaning products, as homemakers, it is our responsibility to takes steps in making our homes toxic free. Here is a list of inexpensive, healthy homemade alternatives. The great thing is that we already have most of these ingredients in our kitchen!:

Supplies:

Baking Soda: cleans, deodorizes,soften waters,scours

Borax: (sodium borate) cleans, deodorizes, disinfects, softens water, cleans wallpaper.

White Vinegar: cuts grease, removes mildew, odors, some stains and wax build-up.

Lemon: one of the strongest food-acids, effective against most household bacteria.

Cornstarch: can be used to clean windows, polish furniture, shampoo carpets and rugs.

Formulas:

To store these cleaners, you can buy spray bottles from your local dollar store or use recycled glass jars.

All-Purpose Cleaner: Mix 1/2 cup vinegar and 1/4 cup baking soda (or 2 teaspoons borax) into 1/2 gallon (2 liters) water. Store and keep. Use for removal of water deposit stains on shower stall panels, bathroom chrome fixtures, windows, bathroom mirrors, etc.

Bathroom mold: Mold in bathroom tile grout is a common problem and can be a health concern. Mix one part hydrogen peroxide (3%) with two parts water in a spray bottle and spray on areas with mold. Wait at least one hour before rinsing or using shower.

Disinfectant: Mix 2 teaspoons borax, 4 tablespoons vinegar and 3 cups hot water. For stronger cleaning power add 1/4 teaspoon liquid castile soap. Wipe on with dampened cloth or use non-aerosol spray bottle. (This is not an antibacterial formula. The average kitchen or bathroom does not require antibacterial cleaners.)To disinfect kitchen sponges, put them in the dishwasher when running a load.

Marks on walls and painted surfaces: Many ink spots, pencil, crayon or marker spots can be cleaned from painted surfaces using baking soda applied to a damp sponge. Rub gently, then wipe and rinse.

For more information on non-toxic cleaning, check out these websites:

eartheasy

care2makeadifference

dkMommySpot

Happy Cleaning!

Papmpers Rewards Program!

2009-10-12T13:43:00.003-04:00

Happy Monday,

Here are more codes for the Pampers Rewards Program. New to Pampers Rewards? Start here.

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Enjoy!

Fabulous Freebie: Ten Free Pregnancy and Ovulation Tests

2009-10-10T11:55:00.005-04:00

Sacred Heart Mission is giving away 10 free (yes free!) pregnancy and ovulation tests. This is such a blessing...these tests can be expensive. There is absolutely no cost involved, including shipping.

Sacred Heart Mission is a non-profit that promotes healthy pregnancies and children through charitable donations.

Click here to sign up...thanks Crystal!

Be Fruitful and Multiply!

New Feature: Memoirs of the New Wife Product Review Series

2009-10-05T15:57:00.010-04:00

I am excited to introduce to you a new feature, which includes reviews of products I am trying out of my family. Since I research many items... I thought...why not save you the trouble? I will provide you with my thoughts, experiences and/or dilemmas on certain items. Yes, my family will be the guinea pig.

At this point, reviews will be a sporadic feature meaning I do not have a set day of when I will review products i.e. Product Review Mondays, is not set in stone.

Without further adieu, my first product review is Wholesome Sweeteners' Organic Raw Agave Nectar. I decided to experiment with agave nectar when I begin searching for a healthier alternative to sugar. Maple syrup would have been my first choice, but its a little too expensive for my pockets at this time.

What is Agave Nectar?

Agave Nectar is a natural raw sweetener extracted from the heart of the Blue Agave plant. The Blue Agave plant derives from Southern Mexico. Agave nectar or syrup in Mexico is called aguamiel or "honey water." The Agave nectar's has been compared to honey, although it is not identical in taste.

Benefits:

In comparison to granulated sugar Agave nectar has a lower glycemic index which makes it a healthier choice and a bonus for individuals who are watching their weight, and it is a safe and popular choice among diabetics. Although Agave nectar is only 32 calories per tablespoon, use wisely, these calories can add up.

Uses:

Agave nectar can be used as a replacement in many foods, beverages, bake goods, drizzled over pancakes, waffles, etc. It is twice as sweet than sugar, so you would need to use less than your regular amount. When using granulated sugar it is recommended for each cup of white sugar replaced, use 2/3 of a cup of agave and reduce other liquids by 1/4 to 1/3 cup. For other replacements go here.

Baby:

Research shows that Agave nectar is safe for babies, it does not contain the bacteria botulinum as honey does which prevents children who are under 2 years old from eating it. However, I would use the Agave nectar that has the USDA seal as this one does. Their are different views on this topic, but you would have to be your own judge and do your research. Sweet Pea has had small amounts, and I have not had any problems.

Personal opinion:

I enjoy using the Agave nectar. Initially I was a skeptic, because I do not like to alter the main ingredients like sugar in my baking recipes. However, I tried this pumpkin bread recipe with Agave and it was delicious. My husband, who is a picky eater, thought it was the best bread I had ever made! In addition, it is very good in teas and coffee. I tried it in my tea when I was under weather and it was delicious. I felt better knowing that I was not suppressing my immune system by adding white sugar. Furthermore, I have added it to Sweet Pea's oatmeal and she enjoys it. In the beginning, there was an aquired tasted because of the sweetness. It is definitely sweetner than sugar so you have to learn how to use it properly to meet your desired taste. There are several brands of Agave nectar, this brand happens to be the one my family and I like...I have tried one other and I was not too pleased with the results.

Lastly, the price is very reasonable. I paid $5.49 for a 23.oz bottle at my local Co-op store.

To learn more about Agave Nectar, click here.

I would love to know what you think about Agave Nectar, and how you use it in your household?

Works For Me Wednesday-Homemade Dishwasher Detergent & Rinse Agent

2009-09-30T14:53:00.006-04:00

For about a month now, I have been experimenting with making my own dishwasher detergent. I decided to do this because it saves me money and most of the ingredients are in my kitchen. While experimenting with different recipes, one thing that was dissappointing was the cloudy residue on my glasses. I finally found one recipe that combats the icky cloudy film, this one works for me! Here it is:

Place these ingredients in a 32oz. container and labeled it "Dishwasher Detergent.:

1/2 cup of Borax (you can find Borax in the laundary and/or cleaning products aisle at your local grocer).

1/2 cup washing soda (I use Arm and Hammer Laundary washing powder, my store did not have the regular washing soda, it works great).

1/4 cup citric acid (if you do not have access to a specialty store that sells citric acid, you can use two packs of lemon Kool Aid) The citric acid prevents the cloudy film from appearing on glasses.

1/4 Kosher salt (adds scrubbing action)

1 tbsp White vinegar for the rinse aid dispenser (The white vinegar is your rinse aid).

Place lid on container and shake ingredients together. Place 1 tbsp. of homemade mixture in dishwasher dispenser.

Hope this works for you!

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Friday Round-up: Freebies for Mommies

2009-09-25T20:12:00.007-04:00

Happy Friday evening,

Enjoy this list of freebies for mommies and mommies-to-be. Don't you just love free stuff!

American Baby Magazine-Great magazine for veteran and newbie moms.

Planning Family-Register to receive wonderful offers, coupons and more.

Lowe's Build and Grow Clinic: Children learn to build a fire truck or ball toss game.

Toys R Us Birthday Club-Ages 3-5 are invited to Geoffrey's birthday party at local Toys R' Us store.

Enfamil Breastfeeding Kit-Helpful information for new nursing moms.

Babytobee-Free items for new baby.

Free Diaper Bag- Bring certificate with you to the hospital to receive your free bag, magazine and other goodies.

Free Pregnancy Organizer- A stylish organizer to keep up with doctor's appointments, weekly milestones, to-do list, etc.

Beechnut Starter Kit- Food samples, e-newsletter and coupons.

Pampers Potty Training Kit- Includes Easy Ups Trainers, potty training tips, stickers and more.

Homemade Baby Food #2:How to Make Applesauce

2009-09-23T18:00:00.001-04:00

I am visual person, so I thought to create a visual tutorial for those who need to see an example on how to make baby food. This method can be used for many other food as well. I hope this tutorial is helpful and gets you started with preparing your own baby food.

Begin here, if you are a newbie to making your own babyfood.

1. Cut apple into cubes.

2. Steam apples until they reach a soft consistency. Click here to learn how to create a do-it-yourself steamer.

3. Add apples as well as about 1/4 cup of water to a food processor (or blender).

4. Pulse apples to desired texture.

4. Your done! Scoop apple sauce in a secured container of your choice. (The above small Glade storage containers work great!) Store apple sauce in refrigerator up to 2 days or freeze for up to 2-3 months. Be sure to label and date each container.

Feel free to e-mail me with any questions.

Enjoy!

How to Make Your Own Food Steamer

2009-09-23T16:56:00.010-04:00

You will need:

A sharp kitchen knife

Aluminum foil

Medium pot

1. Place pot on an available eye on the stove top.

2. *Fill pot with at least 1/2 of water.

2. Cover pot with foil. Make sure your foil has enough slack to create a small bowl (as shown above in picture).

3. Take your knife and create several small slits in the bowl.

4. Place small, cubed food in bowl.

5. Cover pot with lid.

6. Steam for 5 minutes or until food is soft.

*There should be a good amount of space (at least 2 inches) between your bowl and the water in the pot.

Feel free to e-mail me with any questions.

Pampers Rewards Program!

2009-09-21T15:08:00.007-04:00

In Lieu of my blog makeover, as promised, I will be focusing on newbies like myself. As a newbie mom, I spend lots of $$$ on diapers for Sweet Pea. God willing, with our next baby, I will consider cloth diapers. But for the here and now, disposable diapers it is! I was so happy to find that Pampers has a rewards program that can sooth some of the pain for the costs of our diaper purchases.

In each Pampers box/pack, there is a sticker on the outside of the packaging with a code. Go here to sign-up, submit your code(s) and receive Gifts to Grow points for your Pampers! With your points you can enter sweepstakes, donate to UNICEF, or purchase gifts for yourself or your little one.

I have my eye on the Dora cushioned toilet seat, since potty training is just around the corner for us!

Here are fives codes to get you started:

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Enjoy!

New Blog Design, New Season...

2009-08-31T18:28:00.007-04:00

Today, the reality of summer coming to an end became more evident, especially with the 70 degree weather we are having. I love the summer, but I know that soon it will be
Fall. I plan to embrace the new season by continuously working on areas to make myself, family and home better. However, for now, I look forward to our vacation!!!! Oh, how need one! Even typing this blog is exhausting at the moment!

How do you like the new blog design? Its a work in progress. Don't be surprised if you see more changes in the near future. I look forward to providing you with more topics of interest!

I hope you had the opportunity to enjoy a vacation or staycation this summer.

For a new blog makeover, checkout Cutest Blog on the Block!

Wordless Wednesday: Ministry of Dance

2009-08-26T12:15:00.006-04:00

Daughters in Preparation: Breaking Soul Ties

2009-08-20T13:47:00.009-04:00

Last week, we discussed the meaning, and the effects of soul ties. If you have not read last week's post, please begin here.

Now that we are aware of soul ties, let's talk about how to break the bondage of these ties:

Ramah International states that breaking soul ties has to be a deliberate act of the will:

A-Acknowledge your sin to yourself and others. Take responsibility for your own actions, stop blaming others. Psalm 32:5

C-Confess the wrongdoing to God. Confession is extremely important for healing and purification. 1 John 1:9

T-Thank God that He is willing to forgive your sin and that He will give you the power to resist sin. God will never give you more than you can handle. 1 Corinthians 10:13, James 1:12-15

S-Seek a Godly lifestyle in actions and thoughts, and find friends who will hold you accountable. Having someone else to walk with you on this journey is essential. Hebrews 4:15-16, Romans 15:1-2,5-6.

Additional activities to complete this process:

List every person you have been sexually involved with outside of marriage.

Pray for each individual on your list.

Ask God to:

-Forgive you of your sexual sin.

-Release you from the memories of your sexual past.

-Restore your virgin status to your heart, so that you may live in celibacy until marriage.

-Give you the strength to get through this.

Be careful not to revisit these relationships. After you have completed this journey LET GO OF THE PAST AND DO NOT LOOK BACK!

This is a serious and emotional process, but you are worth it! As you begin to remember these past relationships, it will be painful, but, don't give up. You can do this!!!!

You can do all things though Christ who strengthens you! (Philippians 4:13).

Homemade Baby Food

2009-08-18T09:26:00.000-04:00

Preparing your own baby food is not only economical, but easy. Also, it is a healthy way to introduce your precious little one to their first solid foods. You will be glad to know that you can save time and money by utilizing the fruits and vegetables you already have in your kitchen. Your baby will be cooing with joy, because Mama is taking the time to make yummy whole foods.
Let’s get started!

First you will need:

Blender, potato masher, and/or food processor
Fruit and veggies (fresh and/or frozen)
Ice cube trays
Freezer storage bags
Water, breast milk and/or formula

How to make your own food:

Veggies: Bake, boil or steam your choice of veggies (peas, potatoes, *carrots) to a soft consistency. Add vegetables to a blender or food processor blend or pulse to a puree.

Fruit: Bake, boil or steam fruit to a soft consistency and follow the same instructions above. For bananas, there is no need to cook, they are soft enough. Use a potato masher or fork to mash the banana until smooth enough for your baby to eat.

Add water from vegetables, breast milk or *formula to thin baby's food.

*Some baby formula companies do not recommend freezing their product, please do your research before adding formula to your baby's food.

*Do not use water from carrots as it can contain nitrates.

Ice cube trays: After blending your vegetables or fruit, spoon the food into each ice cube until full (you made need two ice cubes depending on how much food you make). Tightly secure ice trays with plastic wrap.

Freezer bags: After food has frozen, pop the cubes out into a freezer storage bag. Label food with name and exact date. Frozen baby food can last up to 3 months.

Each cube is about 2 tablespoons.

When you are ready to prepare food for your baby, place a 1-2 cubes in a bowl a several hours before feeding time to thaw out at room temperature. I usually take my baby’s food out in the morning so it will be ready for lunch and dinner.

Food can stay in refrigerator, after being thawed, for at least 48 hours.

The entire process takes less than 30 minutes. For less than 30 minutes, you can have 3 months worth of baby food.

Feeding our babies inexpensively and healthy is a great feeling!

Enjoy!

Daughters in Preparation: Soul Ties

2009-08-13T09:31:00.006-04:00

*God provided sex as the glue, the soul tie that strengthens, comforts and brings children into a family.

Unhealthy soul ties cause us to be connected, “glued,” sexually to individuals that we are no longer involved with and/or have no intentions of marrying. In some instances, children are born or aborted out of these relationships, which makes circumstances more complicated. You or the individual may not have wanted a long term commitment, but now you have the responsibility of raising children together, or sadly, the life long scare of an abortion.

Sexual soul ties outside of marriage lead to many devastating effects:

-*Children being born out of the sanctity and security of marriage. African Americans
have the highest percentage of babies being born to single mothers, 70 percent.

-*Divorce will occur with more frequency because bonding with other partners before marriage will interfere with bonding in the marriage.

-*Early sexual activity can be a result of searching to replace the lost love of a parent.

-Sexually transmitted diseases.

-Embarrassment, the awkwardness of seeing prior partners after break up.

-Bitterness, feeling mistreated or unloved in a failed relationship.

-Abortion

-Physical abuse

The great news is that… If we confess our sins, He [God] is faithful and just to forgive our sins and to cleanse us from all unrighteousness -1 John 1:9. Although it may be difficult, take time this week to reflect on this topic. Next week, we will discuss how to break sexual soul ties.

*Resources provided by Ramah International, Inc, http://www.ramahinternational.org/

FREE FOOD from Schwan's

2009-08-04T13:22:00.004-04:00

Schwan's is offering a free order of food for $10 or less, this order also includes free delivery! I just ordered the Chocolate Brownie Frozen Yogurt, yummy!

I have the sweetest childhood memories of my Grandfather buying delicious ice cream from the man in the yellow truck.

Click here to place your free order while it is still available.

Thanks, Crystal.

Enjoy!

Today's Shopping Trip and Meal plan for the week!

2009-08-03T13:54:00.010-04:00

I so am excited to share with you grocery shopping trip. Above, are pictures of my purchases (the additional pic is a photo of the items I forgot to include). I am most pleased with stock piling on several items for the first time. My final grocery bill was $74 after $34 dollars in savings. This is a victorious moment for me, since I try to stick with healthiest items for my family. I do most of my shopping on the out skirts of the supermarket, and then I hit the aisles for the rest of the items, like bread, pasta, salad dressing, frozen vegetables, etc., and even with these items, I choose the healthier ingredients.

Because I choose to shop this way, I have limited use of my coupons…so I try to prepare carefully. I saved 4 weeks worth of coupon inserts, collected grocery circulars, compared sales from each store, selected the store with the best sales, meal planned for the week, and wrote a grocery list. I accomplish this yesterday (Sunday) in about 1 hour (I probably could have did it in 30 min, but I was cooking dinner at the same time). The preparation only takes me 30 min to hour because I gather these items through out the week so I am ready to go through them on Sunday.

Here are some of the items I was able to stock pile on at Giant Food store with my coupons and Giant’s BonusCard savings:

4 boxes of Cheerios for $6 (different varieties): 2 manufacturer coupons plus *$1 store coupon. Total: 4 boxes for $3. Wow! This was my first doing this!

2 bottles of Ken’s Caesar Dressing for $4: 1 man.coupon plus *$1 store coupon. Total: 2 bottles for $2.

3 packs of Butter Ball Turkey Bacon @ .98. Total: $2.94. I usually pay about 2.99 for 1 pack of turkey bacon!

2 lb. bags of Talapia fish for 2.99. Total: $6.00

*This week’s Giant circular included four $1.00 coupons that you can use with your $1 manufacturer’s coupons, which gives you a total of $2.00 in savings on your items.

Newbies, I hope this has inspired you to strategize and save on your next shopping trip! Personally, preparation has taken the pain out of grocery shopping for me!!!

I am also including my meal plan for this week….here it is!:

Monday: Baked Chicken, rice and broccoli

Tuesday: Spaghetti, salad and bread

Wednesday: Grilled chicken Caesar salad

Thursday: Pepper Steak

Friday: Fish and Chips

Saturday: BBQ hot dogs, potato salad, baked beans

Sunday: Stir Fry

Enjoy!

Mambo Sprouts: Free Organic Coupon Booklets

2009-07-15T13:36:00.004-04:00

Today, as I was doing my grocery shopping, I thought to myself, "Why haven't I found any coupons for the healthier/organic products offered at my grocery store? I always walk pass the nicely packaged organic brands...longing to buy them, but they can be so expensive. Alas, thanks to Crystal (who regularly has great deals listed on her blog), I can now use coupons on some of my most coveted organic brands!

Click here to sign-up for coupons sent directly to your inbox and home from Mambo Sprouts.

Enjoy!

The On-going Lesson: Prioritizing My Time

2009-07-13T12:04:00.006-04:00

Living in a larger home, being a help-meet to my husband and a Mommy to an 8.5 month-old (Yes, she’s will be 1 year old in 3 months!) has caused me to reevaluate my priorities many times over. For several weeks now, I have seriously considered what works for me as a homemaker. Becoming more organized and self-disciplined has been at the top of my list. As I have improved in juggling a full schedule, I seem to find areas where I can improve even more to make my life and the life of my family enjoyable.

Here is what I have discovered so far:

Problem: Cleaning the entire house in one day (including individual cleaning projects) can be overwhelming.

Solution: I have created a weekly cleaning schedule. This allows me to designate cleaning tasks for each day of the week (Mon-Fri). This made my tasks less stressful and keeps my house together and reminds me of regularly neglected tasks such as dusting (which I usually forget until I see the dust cloud on the television!).

Problem: My kitchen was not organized to cater to my needs, especially finding all of my spices.

Solutions: I reorganized my spices. Instead of having them in a cabinet where I could not see, which caused me to use more time in the kitchen looking for a particular spice I needed rather than completing my meal. I moved my spices to a drawer where I could quickly and easily have access to them.

Problem: Not having a consistent morning routine caused me to waste time.

Solution: Creating a morning time. (Get up. Make my bed. Take shower. Get dressed. Clean the upstairs. Dress Sweet Pea. Do Laundry (on designated laundry day), etc.) Having a written out routine, which I keep in a binder, helps me to stay focus and organized throughout the day.

Problem: Waiting to decide what to cook for dinner at the last minute.

Solution: Creating a weekly meal plan and grocery list has made preparing meals easier.

Problem: Being inconsistent with my work out regime.

Solution: Making my 30-minute time at the gym priority. Keeping in mind that my health is important for me to function properly as a person.

Problem: Allowing my feelings to dictate my choices.

Solution: Learning to be self-discipline, focusing on what is right rather than how I feel.

Problem: Inconsistent blogging.

Solution: Writing down my blog titles and ideas in a designated notebook. Also, on Sundays, typing up my blog posts for the week. I am doing this one as we speak!!!

Whew! Okay…I am done for now ….these adjustments have already made my life better!

What areas of your life need to be re-evaluated to make life easier and more functional for you?

Free 12 oz.Coffee Beverage at Borders/Seattle Best Coffee

2009-06-22T12:37:00.006-04:00

Two weeks ago I enjoyed a Mommy's day out at Borders bookstore. What made this day at Borders special, was the free ice coffee I received with my coupon! While I was enjoying my delicious drink, I regretted that I did not have the opportunity to share this freebie with my readers.

Today, I have great news! I found yet another free coupon for Borders/Seattle's Best Coffee (thanks Crystal!). The coupon is good until June 25, 2009. Click here to print your coupon. I personally recommend the cookies and cream coffee ice blend....its YUMMY!

Enjoy!

16 Ways to Stay Sexually Pure

2009-06-18T08:46:00.006-04:00

I know that last week's post on Sexual Integrity is easier said than done. I am a visual person, so the question I would ask is, what does being sexually pure look like? I am glad you asked! Here are 16 ways to encourage you on your journey:

Study (not just read) what the Bible says about abstaining from sexual temptation (here are several scriptures to start you off: 1 Corinthians 6:13, Hebrews 13:4, Romans 1:24, Romans 13:14)

Pray for guidance, strength and endurance.

Re-examine past sexual relationships and how they ended. Was there a pattern? Let this be a reminder of what you don't want in the future. To get something you never had, you have to do something you have never done.

Be careful of what you watch, read and listen to.

Guard your thoughts.

Guard your heart.

Remind yourself (regularly) the reasons you are doing this. Write it out in your journal and refer to it daily.

Find an accountability partner, a good friend or relative that respects your decisions, values and beliefs. Someone who will really hold you accountable even if you don't like it!

Continue to enjoy life during this process! Have fun with family or female friends (i.e., go to the movies, dinner, plan a girls night in or out).

Stay away from traps (i.e., old boyfriends, guys who do not respect your beliefs and values, late night conversations, late night visits, etc.).

Confidently state your values and beliefs up front (this will indeed separate the men from the boys!).

Read encouraging books, blogs and websites.

Take your "sexy" pictures off of myspace and Facebook. You are becoming a new person and you want to be consistent in every area of your life.

Get rid of sexually tempting items such as CDs, DVDs, videos, adult toys, books (those sexy novels), magazines.

Indulge in a new hobby.

Believe that all things are possible with God!

In the beginning this may seem challenging and you may lose people who are not feeling the new you. Its okay, I have been here...God is just stripping away the old stuff, so that He can make room for the blessings that are intended just for you. Trust him...He is truly The RESTORER.

Please feel free to e-mail me for encouragement, prayer and/or with any questions at amuschette[at]gmail[dot]com.

Jesus was blunt: "No chance at all if you think you can pull it off by yourself. Every chance in the world if you let God do it." (Mark 10:27~The Message Bible)

I am praying God's best for you!,

Nisha

Big Girls Don't Cry...

2009-06-15T14:23:00.004-04:00

My last trip to the grocery store, was a bit frustrating. I decided to do several loads of laundry and wait for my grocers sale paper to come in the mail... so I could plan my grocery trip accordingly. However, the paper did not come for some reason...so I felt like I wasted the whole day at home, when I could have beat the evening crowd, but now I have to fight traffic and people at the store, argghhh!

Finally, after much pouting and attitude, I got dressed and dragged myself to the store. Once I got there... it was cool, not many people were shopping. Before leaving I made a list, and I just picked up a sales paper when I got in the store.

At the end of my shopping, I felt even better....I did well sticking to my grocery list (well almost, I only added a few things) and I had my coupons with me as well. Wait not too fast...I made it all the way to the register and realized I left my wallet in Sweet Pea's diaper bag.!!!! The first thing I wanted to do was get upset and blame everyone else...but suddenly, I told myself, "okay, get your feelings in check and figure out what you are going to do." (Thanks Holy Spirit!). I quickly asked a cashier if I could leave my cart in an empty lane. I went home and got my wallet.

I asked Hubby to meet me at the door with the wallet...I ran to the door and hopped back in the car on a mission to get my groceries. What motivated me even more...was the proud look from Hubby as I sprinted back to the car.

In conclusion, I got my grocerie, although dinner was late,...everyone was happy in my household.

I felt like a "big girl" (this is what I call Sweet Pea when she has learned to do something new on here own!). The lesson: No need to cry, whine or pout when things are not going your way. Don't operate on your feelings, just figure out what needs to be done to solve the problem.

Daughers In Preparation: Sexual Integrity

2009-06-12T06:08:00.006-04:00

Dear DIP Readers....I apologize for the interruption in our new series. Today's post is just for you, next week I will post on Thursday... as usual.

There's more to sex than mere skin on skin. Sex is as much spiritual mystery as physical fact. As written in Scripture, "The two become one." Since we want to become spiritually one with the Master, we must not pursue the kind of sex that avoids commitment and intimacy, leaving us more lonely than ever—the kind of sex that can never "become one." There is a sense in which sexual sins are different from all others. In sexual sin we violate the sacredness of our own bodies, these bodies that were made for God-given and God-modeled love, for "becoming one" with another. Or didn't you realize that your body is a sacred place, the place of the Holy Spirit? Don't you see that you can't live however you please, squandering what God paid such a high price for? The physical part of you is not some piece of property belonging to the spiritual part of you. God owns the whole works. So let people see God in and through your body.

(1 Cor 6:18~The Message Bible)

Previously we discussed identifying and removing unhealthy habits, one of the most challenging of these habits is sexual integrity. During this time of preparation, it is important to live a life that is sexually pure. Sexual Integrity keeps us open to God's will for our lives.

When sexual involvement occurs, your judgement is clouded. This causes the inability to discern the true intentions of the person or relationship. In addition, we also experience premature emotions that are preserved for marriage.

In today's society being a virgin or celibate is considered abnormal. We are encouraged to "co-habitat" and to freely indulge in premarital sex, you have to try it out first before making a commitment, right? Wrong, if you are choosing to do it God's way, He has a more excellent way! His way may seem more difficult, but it saves us from unnecessary mistakes and heartache.

Here are some of the consequences that are avoided when we practice sexual integrity:

-Sickness and disease
-Soul ties
-Unexpected pregnancy
-Abortion
-Low self-esteem
-Heartbreak
-False reality and hope
-Lowered expectations
-Multiple partners

Sexual integrity is extremely important during this time of preparation, for the potential mate God may have for you. By remaining pure, you are honoring God and making room for Him to bless you with an individual that shares your personal values and beliefs. Someone who will respect and seriously pursue you, because of your decision to save sex for marriage.

I know that we are not all perfect, and we may have been or are currently sexually active. If you are having sex, honor yourself by asking God for forgiveness and to keep you from sexual temptation.

Today is a new day to break the unhealthy habit of sexual impurity. Will you take a leap of faith to change your past bad habits and adopt new healthy habits that will honor God, so He can shower you with the blessings He has waiting just for you?

If we [freely] admit that we have sinned and confess our sins, He is faithful and just (true to His own nature and promises) and will forgive our sins [dismiss our lawlessness] and [continuously] cleanse us from all unrighteousness [everything not in conformity to His will in purpose, thought, and action].

( 1 John 1:9~Amplified Bible)

Free Future Christian Homemakers Handbook

2009-06-09T16:28:00.006-04:00

I was so excited when I found this free handbook on Crystal's blog. This handbook has valuable information on how to cook, clean, sew, etc., for your young homemaker in training. I will be using this handbook for myself as well! Please take the time to download this wonderful handbook while it is still available. The book retails for $29.95, based on the handbook, I am sure it is worth the purchase!

Future Christian Homemakers Handbook

Enjoy!

New Look....

2009-06-08T11:00:00.001-04:00

Happy Monday! I hope you all had a great weekend. Our weekend was great, my husband graduated from his Apprenticeship program. I am so proud of him, this is such a major accomplishment...he has worked hard for the last 5-years to reach this milestone. He is now an A-Journeyman Electrician. Yay for Hubby!!!! I was so impressed to learn so much more about my husband's occupation this weekend. The International Brotherhood of Electrical Workers is a great union and organization to be a part of, I reccommend it to anyone who may know of someone starting a career or looking for a new one, www. IBEW.org.

So, what do think of the new makeover? Yeah...it was time to give my blog a new look. I really like it! I hope you enjoy it as well.

Update...

2009-06-03T11:14:00.004-04:00

I feel like its been so long since I last blogged. Honestly, its been a challenge keeping up with a blog schedule. I try to update at least 2-3 times a week. I cannot remember the last I met this goal! Anyhow, I am working on a plan that will help me stay consistent with blogging while juggling life as a Wife, Mom and Homaker. I look forward to sharing it with you. Any tips?

Also, I wanted to give you the latest on sleep training Sweet Pea. We did it! She is now sleeping in her own room at night. What I found helpful is not trying to do it by the book. Everyone has a book on how to raise your children, but we have to find what works for our family or we will go crazy trying to do imitate what the "experts" suggest. One of the greatest materials that helped me during this period was my Above Rubies Magazine. There was an article (written by a Mom) about her totally different sleep routine with her third children (man, God is always right on time). After reading this, I had a different idea about sleep training Sweet Pea, because I was so adamant about letting her cry it out. The article referenced Isaiah 66:10-13, That you may suck, and be satisfied with the breasts of her consolations: that you may milk out and be delighted with the abundance of her glory. Behold, I will extend peace to her like a river, And the glory of the Gentiles like a flowing stream. Then you shall feed; On her sides shall you be carried, And be dandled on her knees. As one whom his mother comforts, So I will comfort you; And you shall be comforted in Jerusalem.

For me, this let me know that I did not have to let Sweet Pea cry it out. She is comforted by me, so when she cried (a real cry), I would endure....meaning I would go back to her room, feed her and she would go back to sleep. This gave me so much peace. Before, I felt so bad, I hardened my heart toward her and let her cry...because it was for the best, right? I was going to show her who was boss. I am the MOMMY! Again, its not about me....it's about Sweet Pea being secure and comforted in her transition. I am happy to report that this method worked. If only I would have saved myself the trouble and sought the Lord in the beginning (bashful smile).

But seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things shall be added to you. Matthew 6:33 NKJV

Daughters In Preparation: Self Improvements...

2009-05-14T12:48:00.006-04:00

The last post ended with the question, what areas of your life need improvement? I hope that you had time to seriously contemplate this question. Also, I encourage you to journal or write down this information in a safe place to refer back to later. Honestly, this is not an easy process. Especially, when it involves breaking habits that you have become comfortable with for a long time (years!). However, getting rid of bad habits that have been revealed to you through prayer and self examination, is truly worth it for this journey.

Some of these unhealthy habits may include letting go of friendships, relationships, finances, they way you eat, take care of your body, what you watch, who and what you listen to, what you wear, where you go, etc. I heard someone say, when God changes you, He is not interested in changing the old you with your old habits. He is creating a NEW YOU...one that He is making more and more like Him each day. A person that you are not even familiar with, let alone, family and friends. Furthermore, with this new self, there will be challenges. Everyone will not be happy with the new you, sometimes others get uncomfortable when we change. That is why I am glad God is doing the changing and not us! We have His word to stand on when we are discouraged. He also provides others who have been where we are for encouragement!

Before discussing the idea of having a mate. We need to take the time to ask God what He desires and what areas of our lives need to be changed? Personally, my first step (after asking this question) was having a closer relationship with the Lord and realizing that Jesus was my first love. I know this may sound super spiritual, but it is true. Once my priorities were in order and I put Jesus first and God wrote my love story.

This week, start journaling the areas you need to change. Write out your prayers and when God answers them...go back and record your answered prayers. Journaling will keep you motivated, and accountable to yourself. It is so encouraging to go back and read answered prayers and victories you have accomplished with the help of the Lord!

Please feel free to send me any questions: a[dot]muschette[at]gmail[dot]com

Have a great weekend.

But seek ([a]aim at and strive after) first of all His kingdom and His righteousness ([b]His way of doing and being right), and then all these things [c]taken together will be given you besides.
(Matthew 6:33~Amplified Bible)

My First Mother's Day at the Beach!

2009-05-11T15:46:00.005-04:00

I hope that you had a wonderful Mother's Day as well!

Doing the Hard Things...Sleep Training Sweet Pea

2009-05-04T14:08:00.004-04:00

This weekend we decided to train Sweet Pea to sleep in her own room. This has been a great challenge for me. One of the reasons for not putting her in her own room was because of my own insecurities and fears. The first night, I laid her down and said, "Good night." Then, she burst into tears! Oh..this was so heart wrenching. I went back to my room. Finally, after much crying, she tired herself out and fell into a good sleep. Okay...this is where it begins, my fearful thoughts started to creep in. What if this and What if that. I turned to my husband....how can he be sound asleep at a time like this?!!! Our precious little baby was all alone in her room (which is directly across from ours). Oh yea, Sweet Pea was still asleep. It was just me, awake with one ear and eye open.

Day 2: I am cranky and dreading the fall of night for Round 2 of this process, but I keep reminding myself, this is what's best. She will be able to sleep by herself in her own room...and my husband and I will be able to have our bed back. Its 2:30am, Sweet Pea's crying...I wake up ,and by default, I pick her up and bring back to our bedroom. What did I just do! Did I negate the progress we made. Now, I feel like a sleepy, cranky, emotional failure.

Day 3: I hear a message just for me from Priscilla Shirer...was she at my house last night?! Anyway thank you Lord for the encouragement! I read 1 John 4:18, a scripture reference given by Mrs. Shirer, okay I can do this. I put Sweet Pea down, she is crying...I kiss her and say "night, night." In 20 minutes she's asleep, and then, I fall asleep. One hour later, SP starts to cry. I go in, pick her up..comfort and put her back down. She cries for 5 minutes and goes back to sleep. I fall asleep again...this time for four hours. Yay! she slept for almost 5 hours. One small victory for Mommy!

Day 4 (Today): I wake cranky, I am not liking Sweet Pea today...I just want her to take a nap. I am feeling like a bad Mommy. I phone a friend who has been here. She encourages me and tells me that I am "normal." We laugh, share stories...sigh...I feel better. I can do this....I am getting stronger each night...and Sweet Pea is progressing each time. I take a deep breath and prepare myself for Round 4, which is in about 5 hours. Pray for me!!!

Just in case you too are entering into the courageous part of parenthood...here are some helpful articles to read: I have already learned that you have to find out what works for you and your family...in other words, chew the meat and spit out the bones.

Noob Mommy
Noob Mommy 2
Cry It Method
No Tears Method

When this arduous task is complete. I look forward to sharing with you my experience and approach to getting SP to sleep in her crib. I will be VICTORIOUS! (this statement was declared in my supermom voice)

Friday Blog Round-up: Money Saving Tips...

2009-05-01T12:17:00.004-04:00

With the many challenges in our economy, I have seen a variety of articles, segments on the daily news and talk shows about saving money on grocery shopping by learning how to use coupons. In addition to coupons, I wanted to remind you to sign-up for your local grocer free membership cards to get even more savings. In my new area, we have a Food Lion and before going there to do my shopping, I applied online for their free MVP card as well as subscribed to their weekly circular, to combine my coupons with their in-store sales. This strategy allowed me to buy enough groceries for 3 weeks!

I am sure glad that couponing is in style these days. I enjoy receiving additional tips from the daily news. However, in today's Blog Round-up, I have to give homage to my original money savers who have been at this way before the rest of society decided to get hip to the game.

For great tips checkout these money saving gurus:

1. The Coupon Mom- She has a free downloadable e-book to get you started as well as a wonderful forum with an abundance of information including coupons savings for most grocery stores, success stories, how-tos, etc.

2. Money Saving Mom- Awesome money saving tips on numerous topics (i.e. couponing, extra-income, how to save money, etc.) She is very personable, she shares her own family financial goals and strategies.

3. Frugal Hacks- A great blog managed by a group of stay at home moms who love being frugal. They also have their own personal blogs. This blog encourages cheapskates, pennypinchers and DIYers!

4. A Proverbs Wife-An informative and detailed look at how this blogger takes pride in saving money for her family. Her inspiration is based on the Proverbs 31 Wife in the Bible. She also provides "Coupon 101" workshops in her area!

5. Freebies 4 Mom- Exciting freebies, blog giveaways, sweepstakes and coupon savings!

Enjoy!

Daughters of Royalty

2009-04-30T11:25:00.002-04:00

Two weeks ago , I posted the introduction to Ladies in Waiting for my Daughters In Preparation readers. Last week, I posted on this subject, but I had to take down the post because I did not believe I was supposed to begin with that particular post. I apologize to those who were anticipating last week's posting. I believe I now have clarity on how to begin this topic.

Here we go...

Now that we have accepted Christ in our lives, His word tells us that we are new creatures...old things have passed all things have become new (If you do not know this truth... please start here). Furthermore, we belong to the Father. I say this to you, because as I have been seeking the Lord about what to write in this series, He has given me something exciting to start with!

Before we delve into anything else...we need to start with the some foundational truths:

We are His royal daughters...He says so in Psalms 45! What is even greater is that you are the daughter of the King...not a king...not just any king ....The King of Kings, Lord of Lords. The Lord God Almighty!!!!

Even if you are fatherless or your father has not treated you like the princess your are. The Lord says, He is a Father to the fatherless....

Since you are the daughter of the King, then you are no doubt royalty and a princess.

How should a Princess present herself? What is the royal protocol of a Princess?

-Her posture is upright, elegant and graceful. You will never see a daughter of royal stature slumped over, head down with poor eye contact.

-She walks with purpose, grace and confidence. She knows whose and who she is.

-Her voice is strong, but soft. She does not have to yell, have an attitude or use profane language to be heard. She is careful with her words, she speaks with kindness and opens her mouth with wisdom.

Lastly, but most importantly, she represents her Father....The King.

How are you representing your Father? In what areas do you need improvement?

Daughters In Preparation: Ladies In Waiting

2009-04-16T10:14:00.006-04:00

Dear DIP Readers,

I hope you enjoyed the last series on Courtship. I wanted to give you the time to slowly digest this invaluable information. Also, it is my hope that the guest post by D. Mitchell was engaging and helped you see courtship in a more realistic view. Personally, sometimes, I am encouraged by seeing someone else's journey before stepping out and trying something new.

Now, that we have a clear understanding of courtship, let's take it to the next level. There are many single women, from different ages and walks of life, that read my blog (particularly the posts on relationships). However, many of you have one thing in common....the desire to one day be married and "finding" Mr. Right.

I am excited to introduce a new series entitled, Ladies In Waiting. This series will discuss: Preparing for marriage, Are you ready to be married?, What should you look for in a mate?, etc. This is a very important topic. It has taken me a while to finally blog about it...I wanted to be careful and prayerful about the things that need to be discussed.

I pray that this series will edify and assist you in this area.

Please feel free to e-mail me any questions regarding this subject at amuschette[at]gmail[dot]com. Your questions are confidential. I will always ask for your approval before posting any of your e-mails on my blog.

Until next week...